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Anyone else rooting for Helen Skelton to win strictly?

168 replies

bettyfretty · 13/10/2022 07:14

Ive just been reading how her ex husband and new partner are expecting a baby.....after leaving her less than a year ago.

I can't even imagine what she must be feeling however a 'source' said they wouldn't expect Helen to be too bothered because they have both moved on with their lives.

How the hell can you move on so quickly? She was pregnant with his child this time last year and they have a baby less than a year old! If I was Helen, I would be absolutely devastated.

I wouldn't usually post things like this but I feel for Helen so much - I want her to win strictly!

Unless I am completely wrong and she doesn't give a f**k - if that's the case then all credit to her!

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I8toys · 13/10/2022 18:44

She's a really good dancer and on top of everything else she will get my vote. What a complete shitpouch of a man and the woman - how can she be attracted to someone who leaves his wife with a newborn and gets with her straight away and then gets pregnant. Absolutely no morals the pair of them. Or her family posing for pictures with him.

Ginger1982 · 13/10/2022 18:46

Is the new girlfriend's dad not the owner of the club he plays for or something?

ArcaneWireless · 13/10/2022 18:54

Handy eh…

Awkward conversations to be had at Sunday lunch if there is a drip in form though.

oh to be a granule in that bisto…

ArcaneWireless · 13/10/2022 18:55

Drop. Nae drip.

JustLyra · 13/10/2022 18:56

Ginger1982 · 13/10/2022 18:46

Is the new girlfriend's dad not the owner of the club he plays for or something?

Yep.

Be a tad awkward if the bosses daughter ended up being outed as the OW. Less awkward at contract renewal time if she is infect the love of his life…

millymog11 · 13/10/2022 19:09

If you were any of the three of Helen's children, I just cannot see how when you grow up and are an adult, you will not look back on what your father did and think, in light of the speed with which he got new girlfriend pregnant - "what was wrong with me? was I not your child before this stranger got pregnant? did you not love me? why did you not stay for me?"
how could you not? It is like he left Helen because he did not care about children, nay he did not care about his own children and yet having more children is something he is not too fussed about and will do casually and quickly if it suits his career.

ArcaneWireless · 13/10/2022 19:15

And perhaps the wallet.

ImJustMadAboutSaffron · 13/10/2022 20:56

TiddleyWink · 13/10/2022 10:36

Strictly will probably be much needed therapy for her, whether she wins or not. I can imagine it’s just what you need after being treated so awfully and having your heart broken. Her ex is an utter piece of shit and imagine being his new girlfriend, she’s an embarrassment. Proof you can be stinking rich and still utterly desperate and devoid of class or standards. Her family and his must be so utterly ashamed. The super fast pregnancy is such a cliche - it’s so clear when the new woman knows she can’t trust the man as far as she can throw him and has to ‘lock him in’ and show everyone how genuine their love is 🤣🤮 Be interesting to know if when her baby is four months old she has even a sliver of insight into just how awful it was of her boyfriend to cheat on and ditch Helen at that time. They deserve each other and I really hope Strictly is the start of a happy new chapter for Helen. I don’t know her but she represents so many women in that situation and seeing her rise and shine from this car crash I think really matters for that reason.

They live fairly close to me (Myler & the girlfriend). She cheated on her husband too. They had an absolutely massive wedding about four years ago that cost her father a fortune. The husband is a really decent guy and both he and Helen deserve better than their cheating partners. I really don't understand them at all. The Thirkills swan around as if they are someone special, and they seem to have embraced Myler as part of the family. Something is rotten in the state of Harrogate there.

ImJustMadAboutSaffron · 13/10/2022 21:01

Aggypanthus · 13/10/2022 13:16

@Joewasmyfave · Today 07:30
Her ex is a massive bellend who left when his 3rd child was a newborn and who has repeatedly gone out of his way to publicly humiliate his ex. I would love Helen to win strictly and stick 2 fingers up to her loser of an ex 👍👍

And you like a lot of other people have read all the stuff she has put out in the press to discredit him. It has been relentless and we have had 'Helen Skelton the poor woman with three children' shoved down our throats ad nauseum.
There are two sides to every story and he has remained silent throughout. if she had not bleated to the press at every opportunity, most people would not even know who she is.
But we all do now !

That you, Jill?

Helen has said nothing to discredit him. Only stated the facts.

DameHelena · 14/10/2022 09:32

'shitpouch' Grin

JudgeJ · 14/10/2022 23:38

YellowTreeHouse · 13/10/2022 07:20

Her relationship and personal problems should have no bearing on her strictly performance.

She is an okay dancer, but she won’t win, nor should she just because she’s had a shit time of it.

But I think that everyone knows that where the public is involved personality, sob story etc takes over rather than dancing skill.

PizzaPizza56 · 15/10/2022 07:03

Some facts people are missing here:

The girlfriend is far richer than Helen will ever be, we're talking hundreds of millions.

The girlfriend's dad is president of the club Helen's ex plays for.

The girlfriend was also married and left her husband for Helen's ex. Helen has been in touch with him to talk about the dodgy timelines.

Nothing to do with Strictly, but so much drama!

Joewasmyfave · 15/10/2022 10:18

Aggypanthus · 13/10/2022 13:16

@Joewasmyfave · Today 07:30
Her ex is a massive bellend who left when his 3rd child was a newborn and who has repeatedly gone out of his way to publicly humiliate his ex. I would love Helen to win strictly and stick 2 fingers up to her loser of an ex 👍👍

And you like a lot of other people have read all the stuff she has put out in the press to discredit him. It has been relentless and we have had 'Helen Skelton the poor woman with three children' shoved down our throats ad nauseum.
There are two sides to every story and he has remained silent throughout. if she had not bleated to the press at every opportunity, most people would not even know who she is.
But we all do now !

2 sides to every story?! Certainly intrigued to know what possible justification there could be for walking out on your 3 children (Inc newborn!) and getting your mistress pregnant immediately.
Even if your narrative somehow creates a near ending to him walking out on Helen before meeting this new one (which I don't believe for a second!) getting another woman pregnant so quickly is appalling.
So no I don't think Helen needed to do anything to discredit him or his new partner their actions alone were enough to do this. How his family are being supportive of his reckless behaviour is beyond me he's emotionally damaging his 3 children without a second thought.
As I said he's a massive bellend and his new girlfriend nasty and deluded.

Shouldreallybeontheotherone · 15/10/2022 11:43

I hope Helen gets as far in Strictly as she wants to- she might not want to stay in for a long time and in the run up to Christmas with three young children! I have met her and she was lovely and spent time with a group of Brownies who happened to be near. If I was her I would make sure her husband has their children overnight frequently (provided they are happy to go). Him and his new girlfriend will have two children and two babies to take care of, not exactly new romance stuff and in my free time I would do exactly what I felt like doing.

GucciBear · 15/10/2022 11:47

Certainly not!! She is going through a rough time but that has nothing to do with her ability to dance. Every year, at least some of the contestants come out with sob stories.

Cuppasoupmonster · 15/10/2022 12:02

Shouldreallybeontheotherone · 15/10/2022 11:43

I hope Helen gets as far in Strictly as she wants to- she might not want to stay in for a long time and in the run up to Christmas with three young children! I have met her and she was lovely and spent time with a group of Brownies who happened to be near. If I was her I would make sure her husband has their children overnight frequently (provided they are happy to go). Him and his new girlfriend will have two children and two babies to take care of, not exactly new romance stuff and in my free time I would do exactly what I felt like doing.

No way would I let her play mum to my kids! Too soon for that. And the baby is too young for any kind of ‘overnight’ stay, particularly as all their attention will be on the shiny new baby.

PinkyandtheBrainBrainBrainBrainBrain · 15/10/2022 16:44

I wonder if he’s seeing the kids because all the Insta shite suggests he’s moved on from his actual family and found a whole new one 🙄 Helen made a comment when she joined strictly that she owed her mum a week in the Caribbean or something (I can’t remember exactly) - suggestion being that her mum was picking up all the childcare slack

Cuppasoupmonster · 15/10/2022 16:47

@PinkyandtheBrainBrainBrainBrainBrain he seems to have swanned off to Ireland as far as I can tell?

I hope she’s taking down time to process things and isn’t packing her schedule too much, I totally understand the temptation to stay busy but it can result in emotional burnout later on. She’s been treated like shit and it’s more than ok not to act all totally fine with it.

BeeDavis · 15/10/2022 21:17

He’s playing for Ireland in the rugby league World Cup, he hasn’t swanned off anywhere. He has a game in Leeds tomorrow.

Sillybanana · 15/10/2022 23:36

Vile man and odious girlfriend.

JustLyra · 15/10/2022 23:37

BeeDavis · 15/10/2022 21:17

He’s playing for Ireland in the rugby league World Cup, he hasn’t swanned off anywhere. He has a game in Leeds tomorrow.

He’s playing for Ireland?

so as well as ditching his family he’s swapped allegiances then as he played for England previously.

ArcaneWireless · 16/10/2022 00:26

His new lass is breaking her dignified silence and wants to be left alone to enjoy the pregnancy. Also making it clear she isn’t a horrible person.

That is as maybe. But just because someone isn’t horrible doesn’t mean that they aren’t capable of being thoughtless and coming across as horrible.

I think though that by going full on ‘farmleeee’ on social media when a family has been left behind so recently is horrible. And thoughtless. And that is on both of them.

Fine if you want to be with someone else. It is never going to be painless.

But folk need to be thinking of all parties involved (including the bairns) and not just themselves.

ImJustMadAboutSaffron · 16/10/2022 00:28

Sillybanana · 15/10/2022 23:36

Vile man and odious girlfriend.

All the family are terrible.

BeeDavis · 16/10/2022 07:12

JustLyra · 15/10/2022 23:37

He’s playing for Ireland?

so as well as ditching his family he’s swapped allegiances then as he played for England previously.

I’m pretty sure anyone would do the same thing if they had the opportunity to play in their sport’s biggest occasion 🫣 His grandfather is Irish, he isn’t the first and won’t be the last to do it 😨

SuzySangfroid · 16/10/2022 07:55

As an irishwoman can I say we don't want him thanks 🤢

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