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To ask for your opinion on these messages?

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CrochetNut123 · 30/06/2022 22:41

In your opinion are these messages flirty or not? A is male, B is female.

A - Hey, how did the class go? I never made it, sorry! Let me know which one it is and I will do it tonight.
B - I’ve not done it yet, it’s tomorrow at 5.30 😀
A - ah OK, will try and jump on it tomorrow 😀good luck, get near the front 😂
B - I’ll do my best! I’m going with my friend so we’ll be barging our way to the front 😂

OP posts:
katseyes7 · 30/06/2022 22:42

They don't seem in the least bit flirty to me.

hatchyu · 30/06/2022 22:43

not flirty in the slightest

SkirridHill · 30/06/2022 22:43

They sound friendly and not the least bit flirtatious to me.

ElizaJones · 30/06/2022 22:43

Not at all flirty

ShirleyPhallus · 30/06/2022 22:44

not flirty at all

but if there is a drip feed that your husband has slept with this woman or something then there is a boundary issue!

Rodion · 30/06/2022 22:44

Not by themselves, no. Could easily be part of an otherwise flirty relationship, but not definitely by any means. If that's all there is to go on then they're not flirty imo.

Avacadoandtoast · 30/06/2022 22:44

No - I don’t think so either! Just nice and friendly.

Crinkle77 · 30/06/2022 22:44

Don't seem flirty to me.

weewillywig · 30/06/2022 22:44

Not at all

PurpleDaisies · 30/06/2022 22:44

Not at all.

have you read these on a partner’s phone? Or are they yours?

m00rfarm · 30/06/2022 22:45

Nope - although maybe I have been missing flirty signals from people for many years if anyone agrees with you!

RicherThanYew · 30/06/2022 22:45

Not flirty in even the most conservative of contexts.

Joyfultoes · 30/06/2022 22:45

What do YOU think is flirty about this exchange

hulahooper2 · 30/06/2022 22:45

No , nothing flirtatious

DoNutSweatTheSmallStuff · 30/06/2022 22:46

I'm interested to know who the male & female turn out to be in this...

letsplanaholiday · 30/06/2022 22:46

Not flirty

Choice4567 · 30/06/2022 22:46

nope without any further context they’re not flirty

AchatAVendre · 30/06/2022 22:47

Flirty, yes, because A is using a class to try and arrange contact with B, and apologising for not making a previous such meeting. Why not just go to the class without the texting and then A is either there or not? He doesn't need A to hold his hand, does he?

LubaLuca · 30/06/2022 22:48

No, not even remotely flirtatious. No more than friendly. Has someone said you're being flirty with this bloke?

EmmiJay · 30/06/2022 22:50

clutches pearls amd blushes Oh my!!!

Jk. Nah not flirty. Just friendly, almost nudging, cutesy friendly.

EveryFlightBeginsWithAFall · 30/06/2022 22:53

Not flirty no

Workinghardeveryday · 30/06/2022 22:55

So this is your husband accusing you of being flirty yes?…

ManateeFair · 30/06/2022 22:55

Not remotely flirty. Literally just a normal chatty exchange between friends.

Are you one of those people who thinks men and women can’t be friends or something? Would you think it was flirty if they were both straight women?

TidyDancer · 30/06/2022 22:58

Nothing flirty in that at all.

Is there a context that's inducing you to ask?

Stupidlydupidly · 30/06/2022 23:00

Totally normal friendly conversation

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