Meet the Other Phone. Only the apps you allow.

Meet the Other Phone.
Only the apps you allow.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

If there was a war who would fight?

172 replies

kirstyalslap · 12/02/2022 12:30

I am keeping my head in the sand. No news. But my child has come home from school asking about the Russian War thanks parents of little charlie and I have been noticing more planes and helicopters.

It's making me scared. Who would fight?
Would our husbands be made to leave for war?
My husband is the breadwinner. I don't work at all. I have small children would he have to go? how would i feed the children? clothe? house? wash?

Would women have to go? What would happen now we have 'equal rights'?
If only men would have to go to war would transmen count? What about transwomen?

Is it just people in the army?
please put my mind at rest.

I am so scared please don't call me a scare mongering idiot. My head was in the sand until my child came home talking about something I am trying to ignore. After a bit of further probing it turned out about a 3rd of the class have been told we are going to war by their parents so that is the reason for this thread.

OP posts:
GirlInACountrySong · 12/02/2022 12:32

I don't think our husbands will be called to war

We wouldn't win if that was the case judging by the threads on mumsnet alone about entitled pampered DH's!

Stressedout1009 · 12/02/2022 12:33

@GirlInACountrySong

I don't think our husbands will be called to war

We wouldn't win if that was the case judging by the threads on mumsnet alone about entitled pampered DH's!

🤣🤣
Hotpinkangel19 · 12/02/2022 12:33

I actually have no idea what's going to happen.

Kshhuxnxk · 12/02/2022 12:33

You seriously need to calm down. Any idiots telling their children were going to war haven't got a brain cell between them. Who tells their child things like this - not a responsible parent! As to who would fight - the armed forces.

PastMyBestBeforeDate · 12/02/2022 12:35

Even if there was a war it wouldn't be like WW2 with your average man being conscripted. The most that's likely to happen is Russia has a go at The Ukraine, the international community puts sanctions in place, there's posturing and Russia either leaves or stays.

User0458832 · 12/02/2022 12:36

I don't know but I guess similar to the other recent wars, the husbands weren't called up then, it was just those in the forces.

kirstyalslap · 12/02/2022 12:37

@GirlInACountrySong

I don't think our husbands will be called to war

We wouldn't win if that was the case judging by the threads on mumsnet alone about entitled pampered DH's!

Thank you, I think I needed that laugh! Perhaps we should delete mumsnet threads, don't want the men to know who is really running things!
OP posts:
Redhotchllisteppa · 12/02/2022 12:38

There has been loads of wars in my living history, Iraq war,Afganistan etc and it has only involed the armed forces.

You do sound very anxious though.

kirstyalslap · 12/02/2022 12:38

@User0458832

I don't know but I guess similar to the other recent wars, the husbands weren't called up then, it was just those in the forces.
I suppose but if it becomes a world war? what then?
OP posts:
User0458832 · 12/02/2022 12:39

Some aircraft carriers will be deployed to a nearby sea (the Mediterranean??), that what usually happens.

100problems · 12/02/2022 12:40

The army. You know, the one
our Press think are slightly dim thugs until we get to shove them into harms ways and throw a parade when they come back.
If we had to rely on the rest of the Men of Britain we'd have Putin in No10 by tea-time.

Aposterhasnoname · 12/02/2022 12:40

Lol, civilians will not be called up to go to war.

Sterpie · 12/02/2022 12:40

Wwre not going to go to war over Ukraine, all that will happen is some speeches about how terrible it is and some sanctions. If we did go to war we have trained armed forces for that, they're not going to start conscription, war has changed a lot since ww2, having loads of barely trained people fighting won't be helpful.

kirstyalslap · 12/02/2022 12:41

to be fair @Redhotchllisteppa I can write my inner mist thoughts on here and it doesn't matter because its anonymous. But in real life I'm not sitting on the floor rocking back and forth mumbling 'war, war, war is coming' I'm just normal!

only mumsnet users ever know my worries I'm starting to become anxious on the inside but only since last night, after hearing others are worried!

OP posts:
GirlInACountrySong · 12/02/2022 12:41

We had these rumours when I was at school

Always something big about to happen apparently

Aposterhasnoname · 12/02/2022 12:42

I suppose but if it becomes a world war? what then?

The next world war will be over in a matter of hours.

Theunamedcat · 12/02/2022 12:42

No-one will do conscription again (maybe America)

A world war serves no purpose there is no real battlefield battles anymore its not like call of duty we actually don't need as many infantry just people pushing buttons from a distance

Truthlikeness · 12/02/2022 12:43

Even when there is conscription, you still get paid a wage for being in the forces. We're not going to have conscription unless something goes seriously, seriously wrong. If things went that wrong we'd have rationing and all sorts of other societal changes, so we'd be living in a totally different kind of world.

OmgIThinkILikeYou · 12/02/2022 12:43

I can't see it happening but then, I would never have thought I would be breaking the law having my mum round for a coffee.

I hope we don't have to go, if they did make all the men go life insurance costs are going to go through the roof!

Moody123 · 12/02/2022 12:43

We wouldn't get called unless it was a world war, until then it would be left to army's
And maybe it wouldn't just be husbands ... equality and all that !

CarrieBlue · 12/02/2022 12:43

Putin will hit the red button and none of us need worry about going to war or anywhere else after that.

Since most of the British population can’t manage wearing a mask to protect other people, I highly doubt they’ll manage to be conscripted into an army anytime soon.

LittleBearPad · 12/02/2022 12:43

Who would fight?

The Army
The RAF
The Navy
The Marines.

There won’t be mass conscription. It’s not the 1940s.

Maybe take your head out the sand. It’s good to be informed and explain things to your child.

OmgIThinkILikeYou · 12/02/2022 12:44

Honestly though, all joking aside, I think if there were to be a world war, most of it would be fought using drones.

Moody123 · 12/02/2022 12:44

Oh and just to add ... it would just take a few good cyber hackers to hack in and get nuke codes (or destroy economies) so I wouldn't worry too much, you wouldn't have time

jevoudrais · 12/02/2022 12:48

I think the times of land wars are mainly over. If we have a war I expect it would be a nuclear war.

Swipe left for the next trending thread