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We are going to leave

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FluffyT · 31/12/2021 22:50

This is my NY resolution and I am putting it out there.
I am taking my DS and we’re leaving. By the end of 2022 we will have gone and be getting on with our lives without fear.
He is not going to hurt us much longer.
We are done here. We are getting out.

OP posts:
SwanShaped · 31/12/2021 22:51

Good on you. 2023 will be a much better year.

TheCloudsHavePassed · 31/12/2021 22:52

Good for you OP. And let us know when you do 🎉☺️ best of luck

MistyGreenAndBlue · 31/12/2021 22:52

Wishing you all the good luck Flowers

Thedogscollar · 31/12/2021 22:53

Fantastic. Stay safe in 2022. Look forward to 2023.
Happy New Year only 365 days and counting.

Darbs76 · 31/12/2021 22:53

Wishing you the best, you can do it

Jjjayfee · 31/12/2021 22:53

Good for you. Your life is your life. Not his or anybodys.

Cocomarine · 31/12/2021 22:53

Good luck to you!
Use all the support you can, hope you’re already in contact with some sources.

JackTheHack · 31/12/2021 22:54

Get your ducks in a row
Know your stuff
Get copies of vital documents
Have your own account
You will get other advice, but plan well

Jeschara · 31/12/2021 22:54

All the very best to you and your son.

NutCheeseBag · 31/12/2021 22:54

Best of luck. Looking forward to your nye 2022 post detailing your wonderful, peaceful new life.

Queenie6655 · 31/12/2021 22:55

Wait a sec

Why not 1st of jan 2022

Is it safe?

Will he trick you into staying?

Just asking cos I have been there and the longer I left it the harder it was

Rno3gfr · 31/12/2021 22:55

Good for you op. Go on. You can do it!

Waaahbaby · 31/12/2021 22:58

Wishing you luck. Here’s to 2022.

Obsidiansphere · 31/12/2021 22:59

Wishing you all the best op Flowers
I did it in 1998 and absolutely it was the best thing I’ve ever done for me and the dcs. Take care and good luck Gin

IncompleteSenten · 31/12/2021 22:59
Flowers
Sparklesocks · 31/12/2021 23:11

Sending you strength ✨

me4real · 31/12/2021 23:18

That's a great New Year's Resolution @FluffyT .

HNY x

Wheredidthequietgo · 31/12/2021 23:19

Stay strong and motivated. All the best, happy new year 🎉 new year, new life 🥳

BrotherHelp · 31/12/2021 23:21

Huge well done you. Make sure you are as safe as you can be/tell someone in real life as hell realise something has changed within you.
You are being an awesome mum

Boredof2020 · 31/12/2021 23:21

Good luck sending you strength xx

Sausagedogsarethebest · 31/12/2021 23:27

Good luck OP. I had the same resolution last NYE. Me and my two young adult daughters finally got out at the end of August. We're now in our own place and couldn't be happier. Stay strong x

Lacedwithgrace · 31/12/2021 23:28

Well done you. Best wishes and good luck to you both FlowersFlowers

BeenHereForAges · 31/12/2021 23:31

I believe you. You can do it. Good luck OP.

Pinkchocolate · 31/12/2021 23:31

Wishing you strength and the best wishes.

superplumb · 31/12/2021 23:32

Wish you all the best and please remember when it gets hard and hes saying sorry, find the strength to not go back. Many many sadly do

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