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Dating app or have I went tonto for nothing??

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KenAddams · 30/10/2021 13:56

Anyone any idea what notification it's the word YOUR with the YO on top and Ur underneath (like in a wee square)

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dudsville · 30/10/2021 13:58

I know these are words you've written here but I don't get it. I hope this post serves as a bump for you.

Fanackapansy · 30/10/2021 13:59

Um. I don’t know what this means.

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KenAddams · 30/10/2021 14:03

Sorry, my husband sent me a screenshot and there was a notification on his phone with the words YOUR as the notification symbol...

I have accused him of a dating app, he says he doesn't even know what it is!!

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daisychain01 · 30/10/2021 14:03

Dating App? Have I went tonto...?

Hmm I know we are all meant to exercise a degree of tolerance about people's individual communication styles, but I haven't got a clue what you mean and what a dating app has to do with the word Your

Itsnotdeep · 30/10/2021 14:04

So your H had a notification on his phone and you're wondering whether it's a dating app?

YO
UR

Itsnotdeep · 30/10/2021 14:05

Not one that I've seen.

Gottahavehighhopes · 30/10/2021 14:05

What did the notification look like? Colours etc?

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KenAddams · 30/10/2021 14:06

@Itsnotdeep

So your H had a notification on his phone and you're wondering whether it's a dating app?

YO
UR

Yes thank you 😔
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Lilolily · 30/10/2021 14:07

Not seen one, there’s a yours dating but that’s scrolly writing in a red heart.

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KenAddams · 30/10/2021 14:09

@Gottahavehighhopes

What did the notification look like? Colours etc?
No colours but kinda bubble style writing funnily
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Subeccoo · 30/10/2021 14:09

If your first reaction is that its a dating app, then I presume there's a back story involving cheating in which case you're always going to be paranoid and that's a recipe for disaster.
If your first reaction is that it's a dating app and you have absolutely no reason then your poor husband, I couldn't be with someone who overreacts to nothing for no reason.

daisychain01 · 30/10/2021 14:10

Ah ...a bit clearer with your latest update, I think you're asking if there's a dating icon with branding that looks like

YO
UR

I've just googled lists of free and subscription dating apps and there aren't any that look remotely like that.

Have you tried talking to him in a reasonable way about your worry, accusing him of using a dating site will probably make him clam up and not want to talk about it?

MattHancocksSexTape · 30/10/2021 14:11

What phone does he have?

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KenAddams · 30/10/2021 14:17

He has an android phone.. Its such a weird notification

I'm not asking for advice on my relationship just if you did know what the app could be, but thanks for your input

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CanofCant · 30/10/2021 14:20

I can't find anything either. Could you post a cropped screenshot of it?

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KenAddams · 30/10/2021 14:23

@CanofCant

I can't find anything either. Could you post a cropped screenshot of it?
Well conveniently the picture has been deleted from WhatsApp!
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daisychain01 · 30/10/2021 14:29

Well, good luck, I think you have a bigger problem if you suspect him of using a dating app!

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KenAddams · 30/10/2021 14:31

@daisychain01

Well, good luck, I think you have a bigger problem if you suspect him of using a dating app!
Oh tip of th iceberg.. Thanks for your input 😘
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superram · 30/10/2021 14:35

Yoyo is a live camera type app-presumably where people strip online.

teddingtonbearrr · 30/10/2021 14:40

Is it the same as this one in the top right?

Dating app or have I went tonto for nothing??
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KenAddams · 30/10/2021 14:42

@teddingtonbearrr

Is it the same as this one in the top right?
YO UR

That's all it said

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KenAddams · 30/10/2021 14:43

It was sort of like the bubble style writing for Gmail notification

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SoniaFouler · 30/10/2021 14:44

OP, where exactly was the bubble writing positioned on the phone? Was it near the top as in teddingtons example, where the battery symbol is, or did you scroll down on the phone where you can see messages and stuff (on iphone this is “notification centre” not sure if it’s called the same on Android)?

TinySaltLick · 30/10/2021 14:45

If you have the screenshot why don't you post the cropped image

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KenAddams · 30/10/2021 14:48

Same as tedingtons but the left hand side (not that, that will make a difference) Same position if an email or text, WhatsApp notification came through

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