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Dating app or have I went tonto for nothing??

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KenAddams · 30/10/2021 13:56

Anyone any idea what notification it's the word YOUR with the YO on top and Ur underneath (like in a wee square)

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Platax · 30/10/2021 16:35

@FrancescaContini

“Have I went TONTO”

What does this mean?

She means "Have I gone tonto", i.e. "Have I gone mad?"
ElvisPresleyHadABaby · 30/10/2021 16:35

YORU or YUBO I reckon.

OrangeVelour · 30/10/2021 16:37

Have I went tonto = Have I gone crazy

(I believe "tonto" is crazy in Spanish)

KingsleyShacklebolt · 30/10/2021 16:40

@Sunshineonarainydayy

Tonto means crazy.
Except it doesn't. It means daft, silly, stupid.

Not crazy.

EvilRingahBitch · 30/10/2021 16:43

Fascinated by the "go tonto" discussion. It's a phrase I'm familiar with so I'm surprised to see so many posters drawing a blank, but Google suggests it's Scottish/Glaswegian in particular which I'm not, so I have no idea where I heard it from.

TheVolturi · 30/10/2021 16:46

Definitely looks like it will be that radio thing xxx

TheVolturi · 30/10/2021 16:46

@TheVolturi

Definitely looks like it will be that radio thing xxx
No idea why the kisses are there!! 😂
BudgeSquare · 30/10/2021 16:48

@EvilRingahBitch

Fascinated by the "go tonto" discussion. It's a phrase I'm familiar with so I'm surprised to see so many posters drawing a blank, but Google suggests it's Scottish/Glaswegian in particular which I'm not, so I have no idea where I heard it from.
I'm from London and I'm familiar with it.

(I also think it is completely obvious in context, and am, shall we say, sceptical about the posters who just CAN'T POSSIBLY WORK OUT WHAT SHE MEANS.)

KenAddams · 30/10/2021 16:49

@Jux

Pleeeease tell me what 'went tonto' means? I'm old and out of the loop and I neeeed to know. Genuine question, not getting at you.
Sorry its I went crazy lol
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KingsleyShacklebolt · 30/10/2021 16:49

I live in Glasgow. Some people here will (incorrectly say) "I have went", you hear it all the time.

But I have never heard anyone saying that they "have went tonto".

KenAddams · 30/10/2021 16:51

@bigfatmeerkat

Is this it? It's a local radio app
Oh ding ding ding we have a winner ♥

Dont I feel silly lol

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TheVolturi · 30/10/2021 16:56

😂😂😂

caoraich · 30/10/2021 17:01

Fascinated by the "tonto" discussion
To go tonto is to go wild / crazy. Really commonly used where I live.

OP it sounds like the symbol for the Clyde 1 / Radio Clyde app. Are you in that area? It's a sort of pinky purple colour

ancientgran · 30/10/2021 17:09

Tonto to me is The Lone Rangers friend. Maybe you have to be a certain age for that although I think there was a remake more recently.

Springchick2021 · 30/10/2021 17:14

Found it on google play - look up YoYo - Live Video Chat.

It is a dating app according to the description. The description says ..

YoYo allows you to live video chat with strangers, you could have live talk with someone you like at anytime.

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Springchick2021 · 30/10/2021 17:16

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Dating app or have I went tonto for nothing??
Idony · 30/10/2021 17:19

Some people are just so desperate for some drama in their life they imagine every little thing must be a sign of infidelity 😂 A radio app. Classic.

Idony · 30/10/2021 17:20

@Springchick2021 the mystery's already solved. She's gonna ltb over a radio.

SofiaMichelle · 30/10/2021 17:21

@Idony

Some people are just so desperate for some drama in their life they imagine every little thing must be a sign of infidelity 😂 A radio app. Classic.
This^

It would be laughable if it wasn't for the fact that people wilfully want to cause conflict for their entertainment.

Quite sick really.

KenAddams · 30/10/2021 17:26

[quote Idony]@Springchick2021 the mystery's already solved. She's gonna ltb over a radio.[/quote]
As stated before there's more than just the random notification.

It was how quickly he deleted the picture from our conversation that had raised my suspicion

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LoveGoldberg · 30/10/2021 17:36

If you feel like this then you need to assess how happy you are. It isn’t good for you to feel like this. There are obviously other reasons causing you to jump to this conclusion! Have you spoken to your husband?

Also, there’s a nee option on WhatsApp that deletes photos after they’ve been looked at, is it likely he clicked that by accident? I’ve done it a couple of times without even realising.

KenAddams · 30/10/2021 17:48

@LoveGoldberg

If you feel like this then you need to assess how happy you are. It isn’t good for you to feel like this. There are obviously other reasons causing you to jump to this conclusion! Have you spoken to your husband?

Also, there’s a nee option on WhatsApp that deletes photos after they’ve been looked at, is it likely he clicked that by accident? I’ve done it a couple of times without even realising.

Oh believe me I do know what I need to do our relationship has been dead in the water for few years now just mitigating factors preventing me being 💯 happy but will come in time lol

Not really he has went a drive 🤷‍♀️ which also makes me even more suspicious why act like this over a radio app lol

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CustardySergeant · 30/10/2021 17:54

"Not really he has went a drive 🤷‍♀️ which also makes me even more suspicious why act like this over a radio app lol"

Could he possibly be angry that you "went tonto" at him and falsely accused him of having a dating app, when he didn't? Maybe he doesn't exactly feel very relaxed around you.

WonderfulYou · 30/10/2021 17:54

Is this it? It's a local radio app

Well done!!

What is your boyfriend saying about it OP?
If my partner accused me of cheating I’d seriously consider ending the relationship.

sammylady37 · 30/10/2021 18:04

@CustardySergeant

"Not really he has went a drive 🤷‍♀️ which also makes me even more suspicious why act like this over a radio app lol"

Could he possibly be angry that you "went tonto" at him and falsely accused him of having a dating app, when he didn't? Maybe he doesn't exactly feel very relaxed around you.

Absolutely. I’d have gone for a (one way) drive if I was accused of cheating because of a radio app on my phone, by a partner who had ‘went tonto’ Confused
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