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Dating app or have I went tonto for nothing??

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KenAddams · 30/10/2021 13:56

Anyone any idea what notification it's the word YOUR with the YO on top and Ur underneath (like in a wee square)

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KenAddams · 30/10/2021 20:13

@WonderfulYou

Is this it? It's a local radio app

Well done!!

What is your boyfriend saying about it OP?
If my partner accused me of cheating I’d seriously consider ending the relationship.

Well in a wonderful turn of events would turn out my paranoia was spot on... He's came back from his 'drive' and admitted quite a lot of my suspicions thanks all for your help
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KenAddams · 30/10/2021 20:16

Would appear there was also numerous dating apps on the phone

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TheVolturi · 30/10/2021 20:20

Fucks sake people leave op alone! She already said there were other things that led her to be suspicious in the first place, and now looks like it's all come out anyway.
Hope you're ok op!

KenAddams · 30/10/2021 20:21

@TheVolturi

Fucks sake people leave op alone! She already said there were other things that led her to be suspicious in the first place, and now looks like it's all come out anyway. Hope you're ok op!
Thanks volturi yes I am fine now I know I'm not the crazy one
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SoniaFouler · 30/10/2021 20:48

OP, I didn’t want to offer any relationship advice because earlier in the thread you said you weren’t asking for it, but I did agree with others that said it was more about the notification icon if you were already feeling doubts. I hope you’re okay.

KenAddams · 30/10/2021 20:53

@SoniaFouler

OP, I didn’t want to offer any relationship advice because earlier in the thread you said you weren’t asking for it, but I did agree with others that said it was more about the notification icon if you were already feeling doubts. I hope you’re okay.
I didn't need relationship advice I know it's down the crapper but I did want to know what the symbol was.. Most annoying I'll be fine thanks Sonia :)
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VividGemini · 30/10/2021 21:21

Did he delete it or was it one of the be disappearing photos on WhatsApp?

Lily019 · 30/10/2021 22:18

Bit late to the party here but I've read this thread with interest as Ive been the one cheated on, in the past, by more than one partner. I've never been the jealous, hysterical type and have purposely turned a blind eye to lots of little things over the years so as to NOT to be that woman.
Ultimately the truth will come out, it always does, and in my experience, in the weirdest and most unexpected ways.
I am genuinely sorry that it wasnt as innocent after all and that you have now sadly opened up a can of worms it seems. Take this however as a sign. Trust yourself and get rid. My heart goes out to you as infidelity, no matter how little or insignificant they want you to believe it was, is truly heartbreaking and a colossal blow. Take care of yourself, X

WonderfulYou · 30/10/2021 22:42

I’m sorry that he’s been cheating on you OP.
I guess in some way it makes you feel better that it wasn’t all in your head.

He doesn’t sound like a great catch tbh anyway.
Find someone who gives you peace and not who makes you paranoid.

OrangeJuiceAndNoodles · 30/10/2021 23:13

Sorry to read your update OP.

Hope you're okay. X

Saoirse82 · 30/10/2021 23:45

@TheVolturi

Fucks sake people leave op alone! She already said there were other things that led her to be suspicious in the first place, and now looks like it's all come out anyway. Hope you're ok op!
Some people on here are just absolutely fucking vile. The OP stated there was a back story and he was definitely acting suspicious.
Ajl46 · 31/10/2021 01:21

@EvilRingahBitch

Fascinated by the "go tonto" discussion. It's a phrase I'm familiar with so I'm surprised to see so many posters drawing a blank, but Google suggests it's Scottish/Glaswegian in particular which I'm not, so I have no idea where I heard it from.
"Go tonto" I recognise. "(Have I) went tonto" was what was confusing to me.
KenAddams · 01/11/2021 12:02

Omg why are so many people fixated on the fucking going tonto expression was hardly the reason for the discussion
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thanks for all the help the genuinely... Yes it sucked but I'm pretty happy with the outcome as I no longer feel a paranoid wreck that was made to believe I was the psycho

And he deleted the picture not a disappearing one

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