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Dating app or have I went tonto for nothing??

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KenAddams · 30/10/2021 13:56

Anyone any idea what notification it's the word YOUR with the YO on top and Ur underneath (like in a wee square)

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KenAddams · 30/10/2021 15:08

The only thing was it doesn't have the lte its an UR where yours says lte

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SoniaFouler · 30/10/2021 15:09

@WonderfulYou

What makes it suspicious is its been deleted from our convo for all those stating I'm the hard work one

Didn’t you delete it though?

If not just ask him why he deleted it?

Your gut it obviously telling you something but I don’t think it’s necessary to find evidence. If you’re not happy just end it.

I think the OP means her partner deleted the photo/screenshot from the whatsapp convo and because they don’t automatically save to her phone she now can’t get it back up to see it again, apologies if that’s completely wrong OP.
TheVolturi · 30/10/2021 15:10

If it's top right it's to do with the android system, if it's top left it's related to an app.

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KenAddams · 30/10/2021 15:10

@WonderfulYou

What makes it suspicious is its been deleted from our convo for all those stating I'm the hard work one

Didn’t you delete it though?

If not just ask him why he deleted it?

Your gut it obviously telling you something but I don’t think it’s necessary to find evidence. If you’re not happy just end it.

No he's deleted the picture from our WhatsApp conversation. Like when u delete a message
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KenAddams · 30/10/2021 15:11

Got it in one Sonia

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KenAddams · 30/10/2021 15:11

Got it in one sonia

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KenAddams · 30/10/2021 15:12

@TheVolturi

If it's top right it's to do with the android system, if it's top left it's related to an app.
It's def an app it's to the left
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TheVolturi · 30/10/2021 15:16

I honestly thought you could only delete a message for both parties if the other party hadn't read it?
I've looked through the app store on android and there don't seem to be any apps with that name.

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KenAddams · 30/10/2021 15:17

@TheVolturi

I honestly thought you could only delete a message for both parties if the other party hadn't read it? I've looked through the app store on android and there don't seem to be any apps with that name.
Not sure but it's gone now 😂 I have also had a look
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NothingSafe · 30/10/2021 15:23

You can delete a message for both parties, but it says 'This message has been deleted' (or maybe '[NAME] deleted this message', can't remember) - i.e. you can't do it without them knowing.

OP, I pride myself on being very good at Google and I can't find a single app called 'Your', or a system icon that matches I'm afraid.

But as you probably already know, if your immediate thought when your husband sends you a photo with an icon you don't recognise, that it's a dating app, then identifying it is the least of your issues unfortunately.

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KenAddams · 30/10/2021 15:31

@NothingSafe

You can delete a message for both parties, but it says 'This message has been deleted' (or maybe '[NAME] deleted this message', can't remember) - i.e. you can't do it without them knowing.

OP, I pride myself on being very good at Google and I can't find a single app called 'Your', or a system icon that matches I'm afraid.

But as you probably already know, if your immediate thought when your husband sends you a photo with an icon you don't recognise, that it's a dating app, then identifying it is the least of your issues unfortunately.

Thanks for trying - oh we defo have bigger issues-I just wasn't looking to get into a slagging match about him when my only real interest was to see if anyone had seen this before
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HowdyDudey · 30/10/2021 15:32

I’ve had a google of social media icons and nothing has come up.

WavesAndLeaves · 30/10/2021 15:46

I think the conclusion is "tonto" then OP - sorry...

But sounds like you should LTB anyway

JesterMcFester · 30/10/2021 15:47

Yoyo - payment app?

Porkchops22 · 30/10/2021 15:49

Could it have been yoru rather than your?

Dating app or have I went tonto for nothing??
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KenAddams · 30/10/2021 15:50

@WavesAndLeaves

I think the conclusion is "tonto" then OP - sorry...

But sounds like you should LTB anyway

Yes I strongly believe this also maybe I have lost the fucking plot but in my defence he is a bloody twat
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KenAddams · 30/10/2021 15:51

@Porkchops22

Could it have been yoru rather than your?
Does that have a notification in a wee square shape do u know
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Porkchops22 · 30/10/2021 15:54

I'm not sure, I just downloaded it to have a look.

Jux · 30/10/2021 16:02

Pleeeease tell me what 'went tonto' means? I'm old and out of the loop and I neeeed to know. Genuine question, not getting at you.

SoupDragon · 30/10/2021 16:05

@Jux

Pleeeease tell me what 'went tonto' means? I'm old and out of the loop and I neeeed to know. Genuine question, not getting at you.
I only know one "Tonto" which makes me suspect it's probably considered an offensive term.
StarCourt · 30/10/2021 16:08

You can actually completely change the way your app icons look on an android phone

Sunshineonarainydayy · 30/10/2021 16:10

Tonto means crazy.

bigfatmeerkat · 30/10/2021 16:16

Is this it? It's a local radio app

Dating app or have I went tonto for nothing??
TakeYourFinalPosition · 30/10/2021 16:31

@bigfatmeerkat has found the closest thing I’ve found to it… it’s a radio app, if that’s the logo you saw.

I’m on an iPhone; but the yoru messenger someone mentioned seems to use a messenger bubble for notifications.

OrangeJuiceAndNoodles · 30/10/2021 16:33

I'm also just hear to find out what 'went tonto' means. I'm guessing crazy, as pps have pointed out, but is it a regional thing?