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Dating app or have I went tonto for nothing??

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KenAddams · 30/10/2021 13:56

Anyone any idea what notification it's the word YOUR with the YO on top and Ur underneath (like in a wee square)

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KenAddams · 30/10/2021 14:48

@TinySaltLick

If you have the screenshot why don't you post the cropped image
I don't after I questioned him it magically got deleted from our WhatsApp conversation
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Mamette · 30/10/2021 14:49

Well conveniently the picture has been deleted from WhatsApp

But was it not saved into your photos?

WonderfulYou · 30/10/2021 14:50

I can’t believe you accused him of having a dating app when you have no idea whether it is or not. You sound like very hard work.

Obviously you are hoping it is a dating site to put your mind at rest. But what would happen if it is? Would you break up with him?

It sounds like you’re looking for an excuse to have an argument or break up.

Are you sure it was YOUR as I’ve not heard of that before?

Thadhiya · 30/10/2021 14:52

What's weird is that you saw an icon you do not recognise and thus accused him of using a dating app. Rather than the more likely explanation that you are fairly tech illiterate and simply can't recognise logos.

FrancescaContini · 30/10/2021 14:52

“Have I went TONTO”

What does this mean?

LoveGoldberg · 30/10/2021 14:53

Was it this?

Dating app or have I went tonto for nothing??
KenAddams · 30/10/2021 14:53

@Mamette

Well conveniently the picture has been deleted from WhatsApp

But was it not saved into your photos?

No I took that off. To many group chats lol
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KenAddams · 30/10/2021 14:55

@LoveGoldberg

Was it this?
No it was definitely the letters Y O U R in the square...
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KenAddams · 30/10/2021 14:55

Sorry to sound ungrateful but see if your posting to tell I'm hard work, if u wouldn't mind kindly fucking off, I haven't given the details as all I really want to know is if anyone had see this app before.

And wtf does it matter whether I LTB or SWTB 😂😂

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RoseAndRose · 30/10/2021 14:56

@FrancescaContini

“Have I went TONTO”

What does this mean?

My guess is that she lost her temper
LoveGoldberg · 30/10/2021 14:57

I can’t find what it could be then I’m afraid! I don’t know what else to search.

Ignore the hard work comments, go with your gut!

WonderfulYou · 30/10/2021 14:57

There is a dating app called YUBO I have not ever heard of YOUR.

FrancescaContini · 30/10/2021 14:57

@KenAddams

Sorry to sound ungrateful but see if your posting to tell I'm hard work, if u wouldn't mind kindly fucking off, I haven't given the details as all I really want to know is if anyone had see this app before.

And wtf does it matter whether I LTB or SWTB 😂😂

Crikey 😱
FrancescaContini · 30/10/2021 14:58

Never mind hard work - your grammar is appalling..

HunkyPunk · 30/10/2021 14:59

@FrancescaContini

“Have I went TONTO”

What does this mean?

‘Tonto’ means crazy in Spanish, so am assuming ‘to go tonto’ is the same as ‘to go crazy’? I’ve not come across the phrase before. though.
KenAddams · 30/10/2021 15:00

@LoveGoldberg

I can’t find what it could be then I’m afraid! I don’t know what else to search.

Ignore the hard work comments, go with your gut!

I know I have googled this thoroughly and cannot find anything

I'm not denying I may be hard work, but wasn't really my question tbf 😂

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WonderfulYou · 30/10/2021 15:00

Sorry to sound ungrateful but see if your posting to tell I'm hard work, if u wouldn't mind kindly fucking off, I haven't given the details as all I really want to know is if anyone had see this app before.

Well it seems that no one has.
I would have said you have the wrong name but you are adamant it’s that so it’s likely nit a dating site.

Do you photos not save to iCloud?

Mamette · 30/10/2021 15:00

@FrancescaContini

Never mind hard work - your grammar is appalling..
An ellipsis is three dots, just FYI.
KenAddams · 30/10/2021 15:01

@WonderfulYou

There is a dating app called YUBO I have not ever heard of YOUR.
Me neither hence my question its def a weird one!!
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KenAddams · 30/10/2021 15:02

What makes it suspicious is its been deleted from our convo for all those stating I'm the hard work one

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KenAddams · 30/10/2021 15:04

Ahaha I do love a comment back firing on a smart arse- just saying 🤷‍♀️

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Mayorquimby2 · 30/10/2021 15:06

"go with your gut" is a maverick bit of advice here 😂😂😂

KenAddams · 30/10/2021 15:06

@WonderfulYou

Sorry to sound ungrateful but see if your posting to tell I'm hard work, if u wouldn't mind kindly fucking off, I haven't given the details as all I really want to know is if anyone had see this app before.

Well it seems that no one has.
I would have said you have the wrong name but you are adamant it’s that so it’s likely nit a dating site.

Do you photos not save to iCloud?

No i have an android phone
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teddingtonbearrr · 30/10/2021 15:07

@KenAddams

Same as tedingtons but the left hand side (not that, that will make a difference) Same position if an email or text, WhatsApp notification came through
If it is the same as the one I've posted it is the symbol for 'Voice over LTE' only appears on Android phones and is something to do with the network. Not an app or anything. It appears slightly differently on different phones.
WonderfulYou · 30/10/2021 15:08

What makes it suspicious is its been deleted from our convo for all those stating I'm the hard work one

Didn’t you delete it though?

If not just ask him why he deleted it?

Your gut it obviously telling you something but I don’t think it’s necessary to find evidence. If you’re not happy just end it.

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