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Please can someone get me home

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stuckingeneva · 23/09/2021 23:14

I'm in Geneva.

Last minute long weekend with newish partner. Two months.

first night. We came back to the room. I crashed on the bed. I woke to him pushing me in annoyance/aggression. I remember it. Like a shove.

We talked for a bit. He's pissed off. I mentioned it and all hells broken loose. Like I'm a wild cannon. How can I say that.

I just want to go home. I haven't sorted out the tests etc as that was his job and we had a few days. But I'm hiding in the bathroom now. I just want to go home

OP posts:
stuckingeneva · 24/09/2021 09:10

@ChicChaos

I'm always suspicious of a poster who is too 'all over the place' to speak to the Police yet can register/namechange on MN to a name that applies to their dilemma. I'm surprised this thread is still here *@MNHQ*

They've spoken to me. But feel free to email them again instead of troll hunting.

I've posted quite a lot on these boards over the years and no matter what the subject. Even being attacked. Someone will come on and say I'm a troll.

Thanks for all the help and advice. Especially the kind offers in Geneva. Im not after money. More the practicalities of testing etc. Which I know nothing about. The gov website overwhelmed me.

I have a history of physical abuse so I wanted to ask if it was just me. I can't tell.

It wasn't so much the push/shove. If he had said I was snoring. Or i was squashing his arm. Or even no I didn't that would have been fine. It was his reaction to get so angry that upset me. The accusation that id be saying he'd raped me next I couldn't get my head round.

I slept in the end. I'm having breakfast downstairs now. Going to look at all my options. There are some afternoon flights with availability. But everything seems a lot better with daylight.

OP posts:
fourandnomore · 24/09/2021 09:21

Glad you’re ok OP and going to get home ok.

PennyRoyal · 24/09/2021 09:22

Half you're ok this morning. What has he said about it?

QueenBee52 · 24/09/2021 14:44

Glad you are safe OP... 🌸

Burnamer · 25/09/2021 08:39

OP - glad you’re ok.
How do you feel about your boyfriend now? I cant tell if your post means that you feel better about the options to get home or fee better about him?
Either way - look after yourself.

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