To ask what to do if anything about neighbours loud shagging?

[ShaggerDoDoDo]

Lived here a couple of months. Amazing house semi-detached. Next door has 3 young kids.

Over the last week, NDNs have been having such noisy sex that the wardrobes in the bedroom are shaking. She’s a screamer, and she then wakes her own baby which starts screaming too! Last night, they shagged and screamed til the baby woke up, got it back to sleep, then shagged and sleep til it woke up screaming again!

We are tired! And work FT.

Having had noisy neighbours in the past I’d hoped for a fresh start here. Am tempted to put a note through the letterbox but DH says no 😆

AIBU to ask what (if anything) to do?!

YANBU - pop a note through
YABU - here’s a better idea…

Hurrah! I think...

YANBU….

Only because I want to see what you put in the note 😂

Sorry OP, it must be horrible. We heard our neighbours the other day and were treated to the bed banging against our shared wall and the crescendo of ‘I’m coming babe’ (from him) only the ‘babe’ was in a really high pitched squeak and I haven’t been able to look at him in the same light since.

I once got told a friend used a mega phone to shout things like faster faster ect

Oh god, that's disgusting. I don't know why on earth people need to scream. How did you not vomit in your mouth?

@YouTubeAddict

YANBU….

Only because I want to see what you put in the note 😂

Sorry OP, it must be horrible. We heard our neighbours the other day and were treated to the bed banging against our shared wall and the crescendo of ‘I’m coming babe’ (from him) only the ‘babe’ was in a really high pitched squeak and I haven’t been able to look at him in the same light since.

I definitely need help if we get to the note stage

—I was going to say input but I think there’s been enough input in this situation already—

@secular39

Oh god, that's disgusting. I don't know why on earth people need to scream. How did you not vomit in your mouth?

It had been a few hours since dinner is probably the only reason 🤷🏻‍♀️

It’s not so much the screaming though hearing other people shagging is pretty rank. It’s the fact that the baby is clearly distraught that tips it from potentially funny to really grim for me

Speaker playing Boom Shake the Room at full volume followed by Mr Lover Lover, then Sexual Healing, and on and on until you've used up your repertoire of this kind of music and hopefully they'll get the idea that you can hear them.

Aww, the poor baby and children
Definitely a safeguarding concern.

Is that an instruction for the Pope.

My downstairs neighbours were loud. Her mostly. Often the flats felt like they were shaking. One night I head police cars and thought someone had reported them. Then the police helicopter was above our flats. Bit extreme I thought for loud sex!!
Nope. They had come to arrest him for an armed robbery in our town!!
Still, least she has her memories.
And we had peace..