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Would you choose money or love

153 replies

kylie122 · 25/03/2021 22:16

Just that

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AnaofBroceliande · 25/03/2021 22:17

Depends, but excepting abuse and the like, I'd chose money every time.

Kanaloa · 25/03/2021 22:17

Well, love, because money can always run out/be lost etc and it’s easier to be poor with someone you love. Also, you can be very unhappy even with lots of money. I think most people would think the same.

LFH1990 · 25/03/2021 22:17

Love for me

MiddlesexGirl · 25/03/2021 22:17

Love. Every time.

Metallicalover · 25/03/2021 22:19

Love! Aslong as we have enough money to be comfortable!
If we have money and no love I want to be single!

Nightbear · 25/03/2021 22:20

Money.

seensome · 25/03/2021 22:21

I want both! but swaying more towards money after so much heart ache

DianaT1969 · 25/03/2021 22:21

Ooh, once I would have chosen love. Now, with pension age looming, I'd choose money. What a shame!

ByStarlight · 25/03/2021 22:22

Love.

Serin · 25/03/2021 22:23

Love. Without love we have nothing.

hilariousnamehere · 25/03/2021 22:24

Money over romantic love. Every other sort of love over money.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 25/03/2021 22:25

Exactly as hilariousnamehere says

My love for my children comes well before money, but I’d chose money over romantic love.

AnnaSW1 · 25/03/2021 22:27

I chose love and made my own money. Could have married money twice but I value myself too highly.

Candyfloss99 · 25/03/2021 22:29

Love a million times over. I was once with a millionaire and realised I didn't love him. All the money in the world didn't make up for me having to tolerate not loving him. I left with nothing and have never looked back.

BriarsHollow · 25/03/2021 22:30

Money.

Doingtheboxerbeat · 25/03/2021 22:31

@hilariousnamehere

Money over romantic love. Every other sort of love over money.
Same. I can survive without romantic love but I love the security that I feel only money can provide.
ChelseeDagger · 25/03/2021 22:32

Depends on what the sex was like tbh.

PersonaNonGarter · 25/03/2021 22:34

love love love

No money could make up for how much I love my family

Ohwhataprogramme · 25/03/2021 22:34

Love, wouldn't hesitate

MegaClutterSlut · 25/03/2021 22:35

100% Love

XenoBitch · 25/03/2021 22:36

Money. WIth that, I could get some private therapy and learn to love myself, then I would feel ready for love and more receptive to it.

Stigsmother · 25/03/2021 22:36

Money

Don't believe in love

Caramel81 · 25/03/2021 22:37

Money

Judithand · 25/03/2021 22:37

I chose love

I miss money

AnExcellentWalker · 25/03/2021 22:38

I chose love.

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