@RebeccaCloud9
Depends on the context. Sweep you off your feet but you know deep down he's flighty, I'd go with my head and choose the money. Security with a good, honest, loving, kind man who loved his children, I'd choose love.
@RebeccaCloud9
You have saved me a very long post, I had flighty, great fun love, I loved him, I never heard I love you from him, but kept revisiting the situation, me, sooo invested, ...him.... well hey lets roll with this for a while.
I met someone, solid, dependable, and a good laugh, not the flighty love of my life, but he always, always has my back.
Sometimes his reaction to an ah feck it, lets just make it up as we go along situation makes me roll my eyes.
But the flighty one, is knocking on retirement, permanently in debt, has an alcohol problem, has never settled, single, never owned a house, never learned how to drive, never, well just never anything.
My Dh and I work really well together and are to quote friends of ours, at times a force to be reckoned with.
I would take him over Mr Flighty in a heartbeat every day.
We are together 32 years this year, I could not have done it without him.