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To pretend I didn't notice my friend sent me a dick pic of her husband?

337 replies

MakkaPakka84 · 10/02/2021 19:59

Cute photo of her toddler and baby in the bathtub, and hubby's penis floating in the right-hand corner. Not overly obvious, but not invisible either.

Do I make a joke about it? Or more elegant to ignore the whole thing?

It's a bit of a funny predicament Grin Grin Grin

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HighSpecWhistle · 10/02/2021 21:02

Haha I'd make a joke of it

Respectabitch · 10/02/2021 21:08

Just here for the diagram and the reply and possibly the deletion message

PeapodBurgundy · 10/02/2021 21:09

A lady in one of my parenting groups did a similar thing, she sent a pic with her husband's bollocks gently floating at the bottom of the screen to his Mam and Sister; she then posted the picture in said group for the rest of us to laugh at Grin No clue if he knows or not!

Itsnotlikethiswithotherpeople · 10/02/2021 21:14

Absolutely do not tell her! Do not repeat and if she mentions it deny deny deny ever noticing. Anything else is undignified for sure! Mentally erase!

Lurleene · 10/02/2021 21:18

Oh god you're right. I was just trying to make a crap joke about the OP recognising his willy. Blush

Lurleene · 10/02/2021 21:20

That was in reply to BrumBoo.

ChampionOfTheSun · 10/02/2021 21:20

I've got a beautiful photo book that I made with photos of my daughter. It arrived, I looked through it, was very pleased. DH had a flick through and landed on a page that had a full page photo of me with DD asleep on me. "Why have you done a full page photo with your nipple front and centre?" I hadn't noticed at all, I'm so embarrassed and have hidden the whole book GrinBlush I am just glad I didn't post it on Facebook or send it to someone so yes I'd definitely say something!

Latenightreader · 10/02/2021 21:20

I sent a picture of my adorable two week old to my (male) best friend, who didn’t actually notice that a quarter of the screen was nipple until his five year old asked what it was. The next day I accidentally flashed the post(wo)man, although thankfully no photographs were taken... Ah, those early days!

Wallywobbles · 10/02/2021 21:21

My MIL did this. FIL and DD in the altogether in the shower. Not something to frame.

Wallywobbles · 10/02/2021 21:21

DD was a baby if that's not clear.

HappyBluebird · 10/02/2021 21:22

Was it worth looking at? Grin Wink
Send it to one of those viral accidental photo lists

thebestnamehere · 10/02/2021 21:22

Maybe she was humble bragging? No?

Imaginetoday · 10/02/2021 21:22

@Mypathtriedtokillme

Pop red and white stripped hat on its head and sent her back “where’s Willy?”
I’m mopping up my tears now!
BrumBoo · 10/02/2021 21:27

@Lurleene

Oh god you're right. I was just trying to make a crap joke about the OP recognising his willy. Blush
Sorry I wasn't having a go Grin, in any other circumstances you'd be wondering how exactly the op can distinguish it as the husband's willy Wink.
MiaowMiaow99 · 10/02/2021 21:27

Reply back 'thanks for my first dick pick'.....

ooohbriefcase · 10/02/2021 21:27

"Are you sure she sent it to you and he's not done it as some kind of stealthy sex pesting?"

MN paranoia at its finest.

If it were one of my friends I would tell, and make a joke about it.

LemonPeonies · 10/02/2021 21:28

PreDICKament indeed 😂

Hellodarknessmyoldpal · 10/02/2021 21:29

I am so happy I came across this thread.

Defo tell her but maybe keep the photo and make it into a moonpig card for her next birthday 🎂 Grin

BloggersBlog · 10/02/2021 21:29

"new style of toggle in the picture"

Ludo19 · 10/02/2021 21:30

@SimonJT and @livefornaps

Too funny 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

NicoleKidmanSuperFan · 10/02/2021 21:35

Was it a ‘generous’ view? If not I’d tell her. If yes then maybe her hubby will be proud Grin

Onlineshopperforever · 10/02/2021 21:35

@ooohbriefcase

"Are you sure she sent it to you and he's not done it as some kind of stealthy sex pesting?"

MN paranoia at its finest.

If it were one of my friends I would tell, and make a joke about it.

Unfortunately not MN paranoia, most of my work is dealing with the consequences of dick picks being sent. Nothing would shock me anymore about the levels some men stoop to in order to show off their wee willy winky.
Hugoslavia · 10/02/2021 21:37

Please do us the courtesy of disclosing her response when you text her!

MakkaPakka84 · 10/02/2021 21:37

@iao

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MakkaPakka84 · 10/02/2021 21:39

@miaowmiaow99 it is actually my first dick pic, believe it or not! My dating life was pre Tinder and smartphones. Ah, the innocence Grin

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