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To pretend I didn't notice my friend sent me a dick pic of her husband?

337 replies

MakkaPakka84 · 10/02/2021 19:59

Cute photo of her toddler and baby in the bathtub, and hubby's penis floating in the right-hand corner. Not overly obvious, but not invisible either.

Do I make a joke about it? Or more elegant to ignore the whole thing?

It's a bit of a funny predicament Grin Grin Grin

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HallowedGround · 10/02/2021 20:06

Please say something. DH once sent a picture of our newborn DC to a friend but in a reflection in the picture you can see me rubbing lanolin into my nipples. That picture was proudly displayed in my hallway for months before we noticed.

littlepattilou · 10/02/2021 20:07

@Isadora2007

Deffo point it out. I shared a Facebook photo of my lovely new grandson not noticing that my daughters naked boob was in full show in the background! Thankfully someone told me so I could take it down quickly.
Shock
Changethetoner · 10/02/2021 20:07

Bit harsh calling it a dick pic. I'm assuming it was an accidental photo of a unaroused part of the body. Yes, tell her, but please don't describe it like that.

MarshaBradyo · 10/02/2021 20:08

@TryingNotToPanicOverCovid

Floating by itself... no longer attached to its owner!?!?
This made me laugh too
Updatemate · 10/02/2021 20:08

Definitely tell her. I sent a similar picture toy sister and she responded with "gorgeous pic of DC2 but I really don't need to see your poonani when last eating my breakfast" I was mortified but thankful she told me before I sent it elsewhere. I was just so focused on DCs gorgeous face that I didn't notice.

Jackie2022 · 10/02/2021 20:08

If it was my friends I was screenshot it, either crop it or circle the area and send it back to her 😂 but if your friend might be prudish I’d pretend I didn’t see it

RubyViolet · 10/02/2021 20:08

@TryingNotToPanicOverCovid

Floating by itself... no longer attached to its owner!?!?
😂😂😂😂😂
EspressoExpresso · 10/02/2021 20:09

Id zoom in, screen shot, draw a smiley face and send it back

TeaPiglet · 10/02/2021 20:09

Definitely tell her because this is something I'd do and need someone to tell me 🤣🤣🤣

Coldwinterahead1 · 10/02/2021 20:10

I'd ask if he was reading the kids Moby Dick

FossilisedFanny · 10/02/2021 20:11

Ask her why she sent you a pic of Free Willy and see if she can work it out !

pawsies · 10/02/2021 20:12

Oh this picture reminds me of my favourite film "Free Willy"

😁

PegLegAntoine · 10/02/2021 20:12

I don’t understand how it was floating and how she didn’t notice.

Is it inappropriate to ask for a parking-thread style diagram 🤔

Wide · 10/02/2021 20:12

This is hilarious! 😂😂😂 If it was me I would ignore it and not say anything, I couldn't face the awkwardness for her. Penis floating 😭😭

Daphnise · 10/02/2021 20:13

Some would put it on Instagram, or forward it to multiple friends...

Maybe kinder to tell her, gently, asap?

livefornaps · 10/02/2021 20:13

I'd tell her, come on pal, things are already shitty right now without having to gape at yer husband's floppy cock.

BeardieWeirdie · 10/02/2021 20:13

Brilliant! 🍆🍆

KindleAndCake · 10/02/2021 20:13

This really made me laugh 😆. Just tell her before she puts it on social media and shares it with everyone else.

Sexnotgender · 10/02/2021 20:14

You need to tell her😂

BilboBercow · 10/02/2021 20:14

Edit the photo. Draw a big circle around it and an arrow and return with crying laughing emoji

WineInTheWillows · 10/02/2021 20:15

Tell her.

@Updatemate what's a poonani?

TenShortStories · 10/02/2021 20:16

Yikes I'd think definitely tell her. It's obviously funny so tell her in a jokey way, but I'd be concerned that sending pictures of toddlers in the bath with clear adult male genitals included might be straying into iffy territory. Nothing wrong with him bathing with the kids, but it's the kind of photo that might get reported to the police if it ended up on facebook, or might get someone else in hot water if it was found on their phone after she whatsapped it to them! Maybe I'm overreacting but I think it's best she knows asap!

BilboBercow · 10/02/2021 20:16

bit harsh to call it a dick pic I mean it's a pic, with a dick in it.

Oysterbabe · 10/02/2021 20:16

I'd tell her before she sends it to granny or posts on FB and just because it's funny.

BornInAThunderstorm · 10/02/2021 20:16

Haha I wouldn’t be able to ignore this. Could go with “the kids look so sweet, not sure I needed to see Little (Dh name) though”