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To pretend I didn't notice my friend sent me a dick pic of her husband?

337 replies

MakkaPakka84 · 10/02/2021 19:59

Cute photo of her toddler and baby in the bathtub, and hubby's penis floating in the right-hand corner. Not overly obvious, but not invisible either.

Do I make a joke about it? Or more elegant to ignore the whole thing?

It's a bit of a funny predicament Grin Grin Grin

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TryingNotToPanicOverCovid · 10/02/2021 20:00

Floating by itself... no longer attached to its owner!?!?

Godimabitch · 10/02/2021 20:01

I'd tell her so she's not sending it around to others aswell. Just "oops think your DH could do with more bubbles!"

dontgobaconmyheart · 10/02/2021 20:02

Oh dear, how grim Blush. I'd tell her asap in case she was also circulating the photo out to others, her parents etc, and for his sake. Surely if you seem to find it funny, she will (eventually at least) Grin

Coffeeandcocopops · 10/02/2021 20:02

@TryingNotToPanicOverCovid

Floating by itself... no longer attached to its owner!?!?
I need to get out more - that made me laugh out loud 😂
Toorapid · 10/02/2021 20:02

Oh, you mean he happened to be naked in the bathroom at the same time? I hope she didn't send it to her mother Grin

Somuddled · 10/02/2021 20:02

You have to say something!!!

SteamTrainAlong · 10/02/2021 20:03

Gosh this made me laugh..I think I'd ignore the whole thing Grin

VettiyaIruken · 10/02/2021 20:03

You have to say something.
Preferably before she sends it to her nan or uploads it to fb

WitchesBritchesPumpkinPants · 10/02/2021 20:03

If let her know so she doesn't send it to her mum

Lovely photo of the kids. DH might be a bit less than impressed though 🤣

Onlineshopperforever · 10/02/2021 20:03

Are you sure she sent it to you and he's not done it as some kind of stealthy sex pesting?

WhereDoMyBluebirdsFly · 10/02/2021 20:04

You have to say something! She might be sending it to other people, or making it her WhatsApp profile picture or something.

MaliceOrgan · 10/02/2021 20:04

Please say something before she sends it to her parents, grand parents, in law, her Facebook page...

Planty13 · 10/02/2021 20:04

Tell her before she sends it elsewhere Wink

bridgertonian · 10/02/2021 20:04

I’d zoom in on it, take a screenshot and send back to her with ‘did you realise you sent me this??? 😂’ although most of my friends would find the whole thing hilarious!

bloodyhairy · 10/02/2021 20:04

I'd make a joke of it too, so that she's aware but not embarrassed!

Wonderwalk · 10/02/2021 20:04

Haha brilliant I would mention it

Floridaflipflops · 10/02/2021 20:04

If my friend did this I’d screen shot it with a red arrow pointing at it asking what it is Grin

shouldistop · 10/02/2021 20:04

Oh god you need to let her know. Just do it in a jokey way.

Gliblet · 10/02/2021 20:05

Definitely do her a favour before she sends it to her colleagues or the vicar Grin Maybe something about bath toys not being what they were when we were kids...?

Lollypop701 · 10/02/2021 20:05

Honestly if it were my friend I’d ask her if she meant to send me a dick pic! She needs telling just in case she really is oblivious and posts on Instagram!

Oblomov21 · 10/02/2021 20:06

You have to tell her!

Isadora2007 · 10/02/2021 20:06

Deffo point it out. I shared a Facebook photo of my lovely new grandson not noticing that my daughters naked boob was in full show in the background! Thankfully someone told me so I could take it down quickly.

SnugglySnerd · 10/02/2021 20:06

That's amused me more than it should! Please tell her in case she posts it online or sends it to other people.

littlepattilou · 10/02/2021 20:06

OMG that's horrific! Shock

Tell her ASAP, and then airbrush the offending item out of your copy of the photo. Wink Grin

Kittykat93 · 10/02/2021 20:06

That's hilarious, you have to tell her though!!chances are shes not just sending to you if she thinks it's a really lovely photo