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To not let an abusive man have control over my child

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dublingirl653 · 24/05/2020 21:05

So we are due at court very soon

I moved to London for him
We got pregnant and literally from day 7 of pregnancy the abuse started
Got so bad
Left many times

Now he wants access - 50/50
After the most horrendous abouse against the kids and I

Aibu to say no right away
Or negotiate??

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Vodkacranberryplease · 03/06/2020 19:53

I think it's worth a couple of phone calls to the person/people you have the most rapport with. Apologising but being clear it's pretty urgent and asking is there anything more they need from you. They can only say no. Even then they will possibly chase up the cps just to get it done.

dublingirl66 · 03/06/2020 21:31

@flyawaylikeabird that's just so sad !!!

And so wrong poor kiddies

The abuse must have been really bad for judge to grant that

dublingirl66 · 03/06/2020 22:47

With Covid 19 it could all take potentially even longer??

Do the cps work in teams?

dublingirl66 · 04/06/2020 21:46

Shall wait and see

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