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Will black lives ever matter?

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RockLock · 08/05/2020 12:36

So another killing of a black man Ahmaud Arbery by 2 white men (Father and son) in US. They nearly got away with it calling it a citizen arrest and self defence. Father was a retired policeman.

They followed him, armed with guns and shot him.

Prosecutors tried to cover it up until the video emerged.
Ahmaud’s crime? He was going for a jog.

Will black lives ever matter?

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YinMnBlue · 09/05/2020 12:15

I am utterly gobsmacked that anyone can use the death of Trayvon Martin to claim the possibility that due process could show a justifiable ‘good faith’.

If you believe that it is perfectly reasonable for lethally armed civilians to kill people because they think they might pose a threat (and part of that belief is because they are black and wear a hoodie... or are running down a road, for example) then you have a very different understanding of a civilised society to me.

MouthBreathingRage · 09/05/2020 12:21

The fact that someone is "unarmed" doesn't necessarily mean that they are not perceived to be a threat.

As opposed to the armed men who confronted him, without any proof her was a 'threat'? More victim blaming, well done.

Theeighthelephant · 09/05/2020 12:21

The fact that someone is "unarmed" doesn't necessarily mean that they are not perceived to be a threat.

He was perceived to be a threat because he was black. Th at does not justify cold blooded murder.

ProudMarys · 09/05/2020 12:23

I hate racism so much. How anyone can have a hatred enough to murder because the colour of your skin or where you are from is beyond me. So sad the he racists are scum of the earth no matter what you look like we are all equal.

memememoi · 09/05/2020 12:26

Everyday it's "be kind he kind" until it's Black bodies on the line... then you are tripping over each other to make it "not about race" even though there is video evidence. Give me strength.

Black lives never have and never will mean shit to a lot of you and while I'm personally not shocked/surprised by it, I am sure frightened by it.

memememoi · 09/05/2020 12:30

Funny how it mostly shows up when discussing the murder,abuse and discrimination of black people, don't you think?

Exactly

JourneyToThePlacentaOfTheEarth · 09/05/2020 12:30

peoplewhoannoyyou your ignorance astounds me. You believe zimmerman was innocent because the justice system said so? A justice system that has never been fair to black Americans? That was set up to keep them down? That statistics have shown to be racist in its outcomes?

And this case which didn't even get av arrest until now 3 months later, due to public outrage?

You think there is more to this than the video shows? That someone unarmed and jogging should be chased, blocked and threatened with guns?

You are a fucking disgrace to humanity

memememoi · 09/05/2020 12:31

I've reported @peoplewhoannoyyou

insideoutsider · 09/05/2020 12:32

@peoplewhoannoyyou said: We do not know the full events leading up to the killing... it's hard to tell whether it was justified or not... the shooters may have been acting in good faith

A human being was killed. Not a spider.

This thread is really eye opening. Racism is obviously more mainstream than I had imagined.

MouthBreathingRage · 09/05/2020 12:33

Oh boy, I've just reread your username @@peoplewhoannoyyou. I hope it's origins is just a coincide....

MouthBreathingRage · 09/05/2020 12:34

Sorry, bad tag in my last post @peoplewhoannoyyou

MockersxxxxxxxSocialDistancing · 09/05/2020 12:39

To get the death penalty, the jury has to unanimously vote for it. If even one jury member objects it’s a hung jury and the judge can’t do a death sentence.

But juries are gerrymandered to prevent this, even to the extent in some states of excluding anyone who expresses opposition to the death penalty.

NowSissyThatWalk · 09/05/2020 12:39

All lives matter
Fucking hell, first post. That's the problem right there.
YANBU OP. I've just finished reading The Hate U Give, have you read it? Devastating book.
I'm a police officer but I can tell you now I would never ever be one in the USA and most of my colleagues agree.

ALovelyBitOfSquirrel · 09/05/2020 12:40

The amount of thick as pigshit racist cunts on this thread is extraordinary.

memememoi · 09/05/2020 12:40

@peoplewhoannoyyou you are actually a sicko. So you mean to tell me there is not an drop of empathy on your part after viewing footage of a person being gunned down????. I am under no doubt that your "matter of fact" post is based solely on the fact he is black.

TwelveMonkeys · 09/05/2020 12:41

It's telling that none of the apologisers have answered:

If the description was a young white male, would the pair given chase so aggressively? Would they have picked on a random white guy jogging in a park? Would they have cut him off in their truck and jumped out of the vehicle with a shotgun?

If the pair were black and the victim white, would it have taken 3 months and leaked video evidence before they were arrested?

Would it fuck.

Bristolbitsandbobs · 09/05/2020 12:42

the shooters may have been acting in good faith

WTF? What good faith that vigilante actions would become legal?

How about THEY let the justice system work and they call the police?

@peoplewhoannoyyou I’m not sure if you are just trying make counter arguments for sport here, or using this as some misplaced intellectual exercise, but it comes over that you are a racist apologist.

NowSissyThatWalk · 09/05/2020 12:43

Just to add @anewdispensation I'm sorry that's your experience and thank you for sharing.

Have you watched Becoming on Netflix? New Michelle Obama documentary and she really shines a light on a lot of what you said, it was a real eye opener for me.

NowSissyThatWalk · 09/05/2020 12:44

If the pair were black and the victim white, would it have taken 3 months and leaked video evidence before they were arrested?

Would it fuck.*

Exactly. Of course they wouldn't.

PrincessConsueIaBananaHammock · 09/05/2020 12:46

I swear some people sound like they're almost afraid to admit/acknowledge that black lives do matter, that racism is alive and well and that innocent people are being abused and murdered purely because of the colour of their skin.

HavartitoMeetYou · 09/05/2020 12:46

Some posters just enjoy the opportunity to taunt and upset POC folk.

And yes the assumption that a black man must be up to no good shows how strong racist beliefs are. Look at the poster acting like it was a given that there was a recent local burglary which the killers might reasonably suspect Ahmaud for. Then it turned out there had been no burglaries in that area recently at all! People invent excuses out of thin air, but as soon as someone brings something up even as a hypothetical, it becomes a “what it” and very quickly “what ifs” get taken as fact.

DreamChaser23 · 09/05/2020 12:50

We have people on here who would argue for "women's rights" but when it comes to "black rights" the tone changes: no it's all lives matter, we aren't all racist, the black guy must be threatening etc.... I would urge everyone to watch 13th on Netflix. Just goes to show how poorly black people are treated. And why do people defend the UK so much? Many newspapers are racist that is a fact! Look what they do and how they perceive certain groups in societies. If you aren't a women you don't know how it feels like to be a women. If you aren't a Muslim you do not know understand the hate they face. Likewise, if you are black you will never understand their struggle.

DreamChaser23 · 09/05/2020 12:50

If you are not black

LetsGoFlyAKiteee · 09/05/2020 12:51

Course all lives matter. But it's pretty clear and obvious as many cases have unfortunately shown that had it been the other way around either

A. Wouldn't have happened which is obvious in this case.

B. Not taken 3 months for charges to be made! If there wasnt the video put out then it still wouldn't have been the case.

TooTrueToBeGood · 09/05/2020 13:22

What is especially shocking is that one of the murderers was a LEO for 30 years. I wonder would the authorities might uncover if they were to go through his service record with a fine-tooth comb. Not that they will of course.

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