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Do you still 'snog' your husband?

225 replies

OhFFSMum · 25/08/2018 23:19

We've been together for 7 years, married for 3. I don't think we've had anything more passionate than a peck on the lips for about 6 years Shock - yes, even during sex... Interested what other couples do!?

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AnneLovesGilbert · 25/08/2018 23:23

All the time!

Are you both happy with how things are? I’m sure snogging all the time isn’t everyone’s cup of tea so if you’re happy then that’s all that matters.

I’m a big fan.

Menolly · 25/08/2018 23:23

We've been together about 10 years and no, we don't snog either, we snogged on our first date but I don't think we have since, we do lots of other things and show each other plenty of affection, just neither of us particularly like snogging.

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Somerville · 25/08/2018 23:26

Loads. Except when I was pregnant and went off th smell of male human.

Do you miss snogging, OP?

Passthecake30 · 25/08/2018 23:29

Just when we have sex, other than that it's a peck on the lips goodbye/goodnight.

Gillian1980 · 25/08/2018 23:31

Occasionally.
Not particularly often though, usually just closed-mouth kisses.

Tanfastic · 25/08/2018 23:32

We go through phases. Certainly not as much as when we first met. It bothers me sometimes that we don't as much as I love a good snog but then we'll get back into it again.

Sounds like it bothers you op, I'd say something.

NothingOnTellyAgain · 25/08/2018 23:32

Only when having sex

I think it's normal for snogging to go? most of my long term boyfriends that fell away after a while

I mean its good if it stays but not a terrible sign if it doesn't

JustHereForThePooStories · 25/08/2018 23:33

Yup, he’s very kissable.

NothingOnTellyAgain · 25/08/2018 23:33

If you miss it then talk to dh :)

Slippery · 25/08/2018 23:33

We do during sex. I do try at other times but he says it gets him going too much Grin.
Been together for 27 years.

defineme · 25/08/2018 23:33

Only during sex really , I assume you're kissing other bits during sex?

Batmanthedude · 25/08/2018 23:33

Just during sex. Other than that a peck

MyBrexitUnicornDied · 25/08/2018 23:34

Been together nearly twenty years.

We very rarely snog and only during sex (foreplay).

ReservoirDogs · 25/08/2018 23:35

Definitely

Golde · 25/08/2018 23:37

Yes I like it

CountFosco · 25/08/2018 23:37

Yes, he's very good at it! Snogging is great fun, why wouldn't you do it? Quick snog in the kitchen while kids watch TV, pretty perfect really.

AngeloMysterioso · 25/08/2018 23:39

Fairly frequently, unless he has stubble, then it’s like kissing sandpaper. Together 5 years, married 1.

Bunbunbunny · 25/08/2018 23:40

Yes, together 14 years love a snog with my DH

SweatyFretty · 25/08/2018 23:40

Yeah, we do.

TokyoSushi · 25/08/2018 23:40

Pretty much just during sex here too, together 18 years

BreconBeBuggered · 25/08/2018 23:41

Yes, we do. Been together over 30 years. But not all the time, and not necessarily linked with sex. A few times a week, maybe?

OhFFSMum · 25/08/2018 23:50

Hmm. Interesting! Thanks ladies

Oh I've said it to him in the past - loads. Sometimes it bothers me, sometimes it bothers me less. Yeah there's kissing and caressing (cringey word but couldn't think of another way to put it lol) of other bits during sex, but never a full-on snog. God I used to LOVE a proper full-on snog, and yes it really got me 'going' too! I don't know why we don't, he's not a massively affectionate person - which I've come to just accept for the most part (I know he loves me) but there have been times I've got very upset about it. Maybe I should just lay one on him and see how it goes lol. It feels a bit awkward now tho :(

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GinasGirl · 25/08/2018 23:50

We still snog after 20 odd years. One thing has changed though, we don't do it out and about, we never used to care about showing pda, but now it feels a bit much.

AjasLipstick · 25/08/2018 23:53

Do it during sex OP.....it signals real intimacy. You probably need to speak to him about it as well though.