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Do you still 'snog' your husband?

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OhFFSMum · 25/08/2018 23:19

We've been together for 7 years, married for 3. I don't think we've had anything more passionate than a peck on the lips for about 6 years Shock - yes, even during sex... Interested what other couples do!?

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MrsGriff8 · 27/08/2018 21:06

Definitely during and before sex and sometimes just in general but definitely not as a PDA... grew out of that a while ago!

Its really about what works for you... different strokes and all that. But if you miss it, go for it!

nothingchangesagain · 27/08/2018 21:14

unfortunetly not anymore but my marriage is pretty much down the drain sadly.

Cleanermaidcook · 27/08/2018 21:17

Oh i love a good song. Every day, lots of times.
Always when he comes in from work, sat on the couch in the evening, as part of sex.
We've been together 14 years and Id be really sad if the slogging stopped.
It's not always about sex, it's more than that, it's intimate and says we belong to each other and need that connection.
Each to their own but I'd be devastated if snogging ever stopped.

MrsJBaptiste · 27/08/2018 21:23

We've been together for nearly 20 years and still have a snog every now and then, randomly kiss (in the house or out and about) and hold hands whenever we're out. The kids are used to it so aren't ever embarrassed.

keffie12 · 27/08/2018 21:25

Yes we did up to my husband unexpectedly passing away in March this year

GrumpyOldMare · 27/08/2018 21:30

Never snogged my ex husband,always hated kissing him. Not snogged anyone since my first proper boyfriend at 14years old....40years ago!

Damnivy · 27/08/2018 21:40

Together 14 years. Married for 4 years.
Go through phases I think. Normally a kiss on the cheek on the way out the door in the morning. Most often not even mouth kissing during sex! (Although still Intimate).
I think it changes with stress levels tbh. Times like the last 3 weeks, there are lots of sneaky songs and groping, been on holiday and de-stressed, same at Xmas normally as both have a few weeks off work. And for a week or so after a night out together (not that that is often). I feel lifes stresses take over sometimes, or tiredness, kind of forget about each other a bit! Maybe you need some couple time op, a bit of fun and a laugh together, think it does the world of good!

Damnivy · 27/08/2018 21:41

Ha snogs not songs!

PutYourShirtOnMartin · 27/08/2018 21:43

Oh hell yes!
I am over 50 and he is nearly 60 and we still snog

We both have our own teeth too....😁

LatteLover12 · 27/08/2018 21:55

Yes definitely, still crazy about him.

Disclaimer: we’ve only been together for 3 years!

3girlmama · 27/08/2018 22:08

No
I've never liked snogging
It's like having a warm slug in your mouth!

TornFromTheInside · 27/08/2018 22:10

It's like having a warm slug in your mouth!

`that's oral sex - You've got the manual upside down!

ladymariner · 27/08/2018 22:10

So sorry, keffie Flowers

3girlmama · 27/08/2018 22:14

Hahaha! Yup does sound like it doesn't it 😂 don't like / do that either!
Hmmm now I sound really boring and frigid 😂😂

TornFromTheInside · 27/08/2018 22:20

No you don't. You just sound like someone's made it a bad experience, probably unwittingly.
You like what you like though - and that's that. No point in people saying how lovely it can be unless you can get your own mind into that way of thinking and if you've no reason to do so - why would you?

MrsMarigold · 27/08/2018 22:25

Sadly not DH doesn't like it and it is not his area of expertise.

I yearn for those days when I walked into a bar, locked eyes with stranger and ended up pinned against a wall outside, snogging and feeling some bloke I hardly knew pressing his hard-on into me.

Ooopps never meant this to get so x-rated. Do those sort of nights out still happen in the days of tinder or not really? I loved the potency and anonymity of it all.

TornFromTheInside · 27/08/2018 22:26

+spits his coffee out+

Bloody hell!

TornFromTheInside · 27/08/2018 22:27

Steady on - my old ticker's doing ten to the dozen now... can you describe that again please - but slowly, in detail!

TornFromTheInside · 27/08/2018 22:32

If we could actually see that far across a bar it might still happen... and if my bad back could stand a cold dark back alley...
And did I mention I don't wanna spoil my best pants?
And that hardon is actually my phone - the other thing's there - somewhere...

other than that. It's on!

MrsMarigold · 27/08/2018 22:36

Ahhh for the days without phones but with fags and happy hours...

TornFromTheInside · 27/08/2018 22:38

In the good old days people would have sex without the cigarette leaving their mouths!

Mind you, caused some nasty burns in the most unlikely of places sometimes.

Fresta · 27/08/2018 22:38

Not since he grew a beard!

fussygalore118 · 27/08/2018 22:40

Yup... 22 years together, married 17 two kids and we absolutely still snog.

MrsMarigold · 27/08/2018 22:41

Beards are very off-putting. I

MrsMozart · 27/08/2018 22:43

Torn and Mrs that's given me a good giggle, ta Grin

OP yup. Together 25 years, narried 24 of them. Still enjoy a good snog. I hope you picked a good moment and enjoyed!