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Original poster

Blood on husbands trousers

105 replies

Melissa74 · 19/05/2018 15:43

Hello .. thoughts please
My husband went out on a colleagues leaving do last night . He came home around 12 . This morning whilst doing laundry I noticed the jeans he wore out last night had quite a bit of blood in the seat area . I haven’t asked him about it

OP posts:
Oysterbabe · 19/05/2018 15:44

Piles?

Florene · 19/05/2018 15:45

My first thought is to ask him about it.

grumpy4squash · 19/05/2018 15:45

From the inside or the outside? Did he sit in it?

AllyMcBeagle · 19/05/2018 15:45

I haven’t asked him about it

Why not?

GalwayWayfarer · 19/05/2018 15:45

You should - he needs to see a GP, rectal bleeding can be a sign of a condition swiftly needing treatment. Hope you and he are both ok Flowers

repairandprotect · 19/05/2018 15:45

Yabu not to ask him about it.

AmazingPostVoices · 19/05/2018 15:47

You haven’t asked him but you are asking us?

Hmm

Don’t be ridiculous, ask him.

Nikephorus · 19/05/2018 15:48

He's probably a mass murderer. LTB.

4GreenApples · 19/05/2018 15:48

Yes, ask him, if he has rectal bleeding it’s best to see a GP, in case it’s something he needs treatment for.

SirVixofVixHall · 19/05/2018 15:49

Agree, inside or out ? Sat in or from his body ? That much blood needs checking out, so you do need to ask him.

ineedamoreadultieradult · 19/05/2018 15:49

In the seat area on the inside could be many things, none of them good. Ask him and get him the appropriate help.

LionAllMessy · 19/05/2018 15:50

Ask him about it.

Original poster
Melissa74 · 19/05/2018 15:52

Inside ... I haven’t asked as I’m frightened of the answer also we are more housemates than husband & wife

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NurseButtercup · 19/05/2018 15:52

Is there a reason you can't ask your husband?

If not, then you need to ask him and if he is bleeding from his bum, encourage him to go and see his GP

crumble2 · 19/05/2018 15:53

Just ask him Confused

Clubcuts · 19/05/2018 15:54

If your not bothered enough to ask him then why ask us?

Clubcuts · 19/05/2018 15:54

Oh and flat mates that do each others washing........

Original poster
Melissa74 · 19/05/2018 15:55

Embarrassment (him)
If it was something he wanted to discuss he would of mentioned it to me

OP posts:
GrandTheftWalrus · 19/05/2018 15:55

Ask.....

Original poster
Melissa74 · 19/05/2018 15:56

I have been on Anti depressants for a year .. I’ve not discussed that with him either . We don’t have a particularly healthy relationship

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SayImADreamer · 19/05/2018 15:57

What do you suspect op?

Original poster
Melissa74 · 19/05/2018 15:57

Clubuts if you have nothing nice to say 🤐

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LoniceraJaponica · 19/05/2018 15:59

Just find the courage to let him know that you know, and tell him to make an appointment with the GP.

Summersnake · 19/05/2018 16:00

How does he seem in himself? Could he of been attacked

boatass · 19/05/2018 16:01

You’re being very weird