Blood on husbands trousers

[Melissa74]

Hello .. thoughts please
My husband went out on a colleagues leaving do last night . He came home around 12 . This morning whilst doing laundry I noticed the jeans he wore out last night had quite a bit of blood in the seat area . I haven’t asked him about it

Yes he wants to live with with me but not away from his friends /school /life which is understandable .Thank you for all of your comments I try to focus on all the positive aspects .. I have 2 beautiful sons , a nice home , a job I enjoy . Money to enjoy a city break once a year with my friends etc .
Also he ( hubby ) is not a bad person , it would be so much easier if he was abusive ( although I once once woke up to him having sex with me.... years ago .. see I’m an expert of burying my feelings ) he is generous , works hard etc

Never told that to anyone before , not my closest friend or my Dr ... it’s amazing what you will tell total strangers after 1 glass of fizz watching the RW

Melissa I'm so sorry that happened to you. I know burying has probably become easy but if you ever did want to stop burying and leave him you'd have us as an army behind you xx

Thank you @littledinasaurs that’s a really kind thing to say

little is right we are all here for you whatever you choose, it sounds like a miserable time for you but I also completely understand why you are still with him. thinking of you