AIBU - just found porn on Husband's phone

[JerryLarryTerryGarry]

Had lovely family lunch out, DH, myself, DD and DS. Came home, DH has to cut the grass. Leaves his phone with me whilst he does to view new family member photo's, then I find 3 videos and 2 photo's of downloaded stuff that shocked me to the core. Didn't jump down his throat at first as I know his brother has sent him things before that he shouldn't have, but then he freely admitted he had downloaded them and his defence was - It's lesbian porn. Threw a glass of water in his face and shoved him out the door and told him not to return. Does anyone else tolerate porn? I don't even know.

No one burials their head in the sad quite as deeply as a porn apologist.

@diandra so yes....not about porn and all about your husband's affair.

Different scenario to the OP who's DH hasn't had an affair ( as far as we know )

Diandra: hazard a guess as to why your post was deleted by mumsnet.

You really are very pleased with yourself for that little anecdote, aren't you? To the extent of posting it for a second time

Diandra I bet he wished you had chucked a glass of water at him instead of smashing up his laptop

Here’s a funny story, I destroyed my husbands property and made him think it was all his fault, hilarious @diandra

Also, aren't anecdotes hilarious when they rely on a racist slur? Very funny, oh my sides, etc.

Your repost will disappear soon, as will my current and last two posts for replying to it. Hopefully you'll see this in time instead of sharing it for a third time.

@diandra but essentially influenced by your husband's affair.

You sounds so proud of your racist story which is bizarre. Glad he's got over his 'fetish'
(Bet he hasn't)

Thanks MN.

MN delete your post when you've broken their talk guidelines.

@diandra role played! I'm genuinely interested in what that entailed and how that allowed him to get over his fetish

Diandra you’re a racist bigot, pretty sure that against he guidelines

Why does everyone keep saying that men are more visual creatures?
What do you base this on?

Surely its a generalisation borne of experience that men tend to be more interested in female nudity and otherwise "seeing", than vice versa?

Personally I think some people are visual some aren't, but probably a higher percentage of men are.

Seriously? You don’t think what you wrote was racist? That’s why it was deleted....

@diandra haha so it never happened. I get it ... you're just a racist

You literally can.

1. Bigbustycoons disgusting racial slur right there
2. Coloured woman - racist
3. Fetish - liking black women is not a fetish saying it makes you racist.
4. All that bollocks about kfc

However no therapist in his right mind would suggest such an awful thing to help you get over your husbands affair so I think you’re just a troll