Softzilla: You play; you pay!

[Unreasonableunreasonableness]

Before you all get excited: no party yet (I was trying to keep when it was vague so more anonymous but i give up) . I have had a message from softzilla.
'So are we calm enough to sort this oot for tomorrow? '

There is no way i would miss tomorrow. If you dont go people will think that you had something to hide.

Good luck

(munches popcorn)

so sorry to hear you were outed so publicly.. whether she meant to or not that must have been a real slap in the face. It's as bad as the "I didn't know how to tell you"comments (primary infertility experienced here)

Sorry you're having a tough time. Hope all goes beautifully later.

Wahoo it's party day... shamelessly place marking and hope the mad hatter gets what she deserves later 😈😈

Sorry to read your latest update OP.

💐💐💐

Softzilla is a loon - looking forward to the party

So sorry op good luck at the party!

Good luck!

Oh yes, I remember this! You need lots of Unreasonable!

Failing

1. Send her own text back to her.

btdt too Unreasonable (((((((Soft Mad Hugger Hugs))))))))))

Good luck for today. Hold your head high and don't engage. Xxx

Good luck today OP. I know how you feel about having fertility issues outed to friends and strangers. I had similar on a Facebook post and it wasn’t nice. Keep your head held high and remember that you’ve got a mumsnet massive behind you

Only just seen the new thread. I'm so sorry to hear about the fertility issues, OP, sounds like you're having a shit time all round.

Hope the party goes ok. Ignore Softzilla, she's so not worth any headspace.

I've just had myself a binge read with ☕️
So sorry you're dreading this party- I say go there with head held high and smile brightly whilst she scowls- and provide live updates if poss. Obvs.

Delurking to say good luck for today!

"Up from the depths
Thirty stories high
Breathing fire
Head in the sky
Softzilla!
Softzilla!
Softzilla!

(And Softzookie....")

I've just had a thought - Softzilla is going to be going along to this party (if she actually shows up) spoiling for a showdown. You, on the other hand, have far more important things to consider just now and she will be as a mere fly to annoy you - this is going to irk her eNORMously!
Especially if there is a general feeling of sympathy towards you - she's going to feel like her nose is right out of joint.

What a shame, eh?!

Good morning everyone! Thank you for your kindness. I have slept like a log (possibly due the the whiskey....) and feel a bit better this morning. I will be going to the party, and turning up early. I have the cake, I have to! Wish me luck!

Sending and very Unmumsnetty hugs OP

You’ve handled this perfectly and she’s showing herself for the CF/arsehole that she is.

Thinking of you today xx

I've been up all night feeding 3 week old DD and your thread has really kept me going. Unbelievable CF-ery, I'm intreagued to see happens, but I am very proud of you for staying strong, and I hope you are feeling OK after your friend accidentally aired your private business, that's crap.

Unreasonable I am so sorry to hear of your issues. for you, good luck today.

Does Softzilla know of your fertility issues? If so she’s an even worse person for persisting with that ridiculous argument. She needs to get over herself and realise what’s really important. At least after this you know who your true friends are.

Oh op just been catching up
I'd be so so angry if this cf knows you're going through this and still being such a fuckwit
You're handling this perfectly. Big unmumsnetty hugs and

Unreasonableunreasonableness what are you going to do if Softzilla has read your two threads? I'm guessing that you are quoting her texts verbtim so she will have no doubt that its you writing about her?