My husband said he would be back at 8pm - AIBU?

[Abcd12345]

As he left for work this morning my husband said he would be back a little later (around 8pm) as he was going for a drink. It's now midnight, i have heard nothing from him and he is still not back nor is he answering texts or calls.

Most times he goes out he does this eventually rolling in drunk after getting the last train. It does my head in! Not so much the coming in much later than he said, more the not answering my calls. As I have no idea if he is okay. He then gets annoyed by me being annoyed.....

So who is BU? He genuinely believes I am but it's him, right? Would love to know what other people think.

Haw, such hard neds, hanging out on mawsnet. Why aren’t you bamming up the south side instead?

Well that was an interesting read.

If I were you I'd actually secretly book a few days away without him. Then go and leave him stew in it.

Isn't this the point someone suggests you book yourself a spa day?

So disappointed I've returned here too late to read the what must have been highly amusing troll comments

I feel rather sorry for the OP, who presumably started the thread looking for a bit of advice and a hand-hold, and instead got a poor attempt at Irvine Welsh's best dialogue in return...

Did he turn up, OP? I hope he's going to have to get himself to work with a severe hangover.

Op is he home yet?

I had one of these. For various reasons ( including this) I got rid of him. It was complicated by the fact that he had epilepsy so I had real reasons for concern. After far too many occasions when he did this I told him that if he was back late without letting me know I would lock him out. I did. It was February and very very cold! I didn't let him in either, but to be fair I had already put a scrap of carpet and a duvet in the shed and he slept in there. I can't say he never did it again but then he was a complete wanker and I am well rid.

@Abcd12345 did he turn up OP?