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My husband said he would be back at 8pm - AIBU?

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Abcd12345 · 20/12/2017 00:23

As he left for work this morning my husband said he would be back a little later (around 8pm) as he was going for a drink. It's now midnight, i have heard nothing from him and he is still not back nor is he answering texts or calls.

Most times he goes out he does this eventually rolling in drunk after getting the last train. It does my head in! Not so much the coming in much later than he said, more the not answering my calls. As I have no idea if he is okay. He then gets annoyed by me being annoyed.....

So who is BU? He genuinely believes I am but it's him, right? Would love to know what other people think.

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bigsexywalker · 20/12/2017 01:34

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ShoesHaveSouls · 20/12/2017 01:34

Ya will not

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ShoesHaveSouls · 20/12/2017 01:37

Night boys. Yo ma know you're on t'internet this late? It's been fun.

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ShoesHaveSouls · 20/12/2017 01:39

No she doesn't - go to sleep lads. Lights out time.

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SisterLocation · 20/12/2017 01:40

Yanbu, my ex used to do this (amongst other awful stuff) which is why he is an ex.

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BulletFox · 20/12/2017 01:42

Have you got a sedative to hand? Or a dictionary??

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ShoesHaveSouls · 20/12/2017 01:42

Aw, bless you sweethearts - of course mama will leave a nightlight on.

cloudchasing · 20/12/2017 01:43

Well that escalated quickly.

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LineyRunner · 20/12/2017 01:45

I fear they have found the tubes of jelly tots and refreshers hidden for xmas and the E-numbers haven't sat well.

ShoesHaveSouls · 20/12/2017 01:45

Night night yermapants my dear. Sleep tight sweetie - don't let the bed bugs bite...

BulletFox · 20/12/2017 01:45

Shoes have souls. That's one of the most poetic things I've ever read.

ShoesHaveSouls · 20/12/2017 01:47

I fear it's the e numbers and the fizzy pop, Liney. Shame.