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My husband said he would be back at 8pm - AIBU?

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Abcd12345 · 20/12/2017 00:23

As he left for work this morning my husband said he would be back a little later (around 8pm) as he was going for a drink. It's now midnight, i have heard nothing from him and he is still not back nor is he answering texts or calls.

Most times he goes out he does this eventually rolling in drunk after getting the last train. It does my head in! Not so much the coming in much later than he said, more the not answering my calls. As I have no idea if he is okay. He then gets annoyed by me being annoyed.....

So who is BU? He genuinely believes I am but it's him, right? Would love to know what other people think.

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Yermawpunts · 20/12/2017 02:35

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Mustang27 · 20/12/2017 02:35

Haha dons hat to you. No as I'm adopted lol

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BulletFox · 20/12/2017 02:37

What's a bam? Does that mean female?

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SisterLocation · 20/12/2017 02:38

Yes, what is a bam, I need to know!

Mustang27 · 20/12/2017 02:38

Bulletfox it means an idiot but I wouldn't ask our trolls as I doubt they would know. Cretins.

bigsexywalker2 · 20/12/2017 02:38

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Mustang27 · 20/12/2017 02:39

If your offering

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SisterLocation · 20/12/2017 02:40
Grin
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BulletFox · 20/12/2017 02:40

Mustang Grin

It's like invasion of the body snatchers, but hypnotic at the same time!

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SisterLocation · 20/12/2017 02:41

Op, we are still here, has he returned yet? If not put all his clothes in the garden.

harrypotternerd · 20/12/2017 02:42

WTF did I just read?????????????

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HemanOrSheRa · 20/12/2017 02:42

I have melatonin tablets! .

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Mustang27 · 20/12/2017 02:43

Seriously it's pretty amusing. They think they are clever by throwing a load of Scottish slang on a thread but it's just daft.

I swear though that is how some people speak near me but they generally have no teeth and wear to much denim or fake kappa.

I feel sorry for the op. I really should have ignored it. I'd recommend chewing the fat for a more palatable Scottish humour lol.