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At a 19yr Old Transwoman being elected a Labour woman’s officer

476 replies

bambambini · 20/11/2017 08:48

Seems the old WO stepped down after alleged bullying and accusation of transphobia. The new WO is a 19 yr old Transwoman - i think who made many of The allegations against the previous WO.

What experience has a 19 yr old TW got to hold this post - weirder than weird.

www.thetimes.co.uk/article/trans-teenager-lily-madigan-voted-in-as-a-labour-women-s-officer-mwchkhzq8

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DrWibley · 20/11/2017 13:14

please don't give up on Labour because of this though

Get onto Labour and make them see. Write to your MP.
Labour can fucking swivel if this is their stance.

Sentimentallentil · 20/11/2017 13:16

Her YouTube videos are so cringe, she’s a child.

‘I’m just like all the other girls, I like make up, clothes boys, the only way I’m different is that I’m actually a boy, but I’m all the real ways you know, liking make up and clothes then I’m a woman’

Sentimentallentil · 20/11/2017 13:18

Sorry I didn’t check that before I posted and my autocorrect is a bit trigger happy.

catgirl1976 · 20/11/2017 13:19

I'd wish I'd know early that make up and clothes were what made me a woman.

I had thought it was stuff like having a vagina, the chromosomes I possessed and all of that.

Had I know it was simply the make up I would have stopped wearing it and earned 18% more for the last 20 odd years. Plus I could have stopped being the one to remember to send birthday cards to DH's family.

brasty · 20/11/2017 13:21

And it would mean lesbians are not women.

therealposieparker · 20/11/2017 13:21

I've didn't renew my membership for this sort of thing this year. How can a party represent me if they can't even define woman?

Datun · 20/11/2017 13:22

I apologise in advance, but have to admit I couldn’t get through more than a couple of minutes of this video.

This young man is clearly troubled.

He is fairly inarticulate and clearly doesn’t give the slightest toss about women.

More than happy to make women feel uncomfortable, he out right admits that he simply can’t understand why he was initially prevented from using the bathroom that gave him the most comfort.

(But, apparently hired a lawyer, to push his point home).

This isn’t even about trans rights versus women’s rights.

This is about hiring someone who appears woefully under equipped to deal with life, much less representing the political views of women.

It’s made the Labour Party look like utter lunatics.

m.youtube.com/watch?v=i6N_bv3BMgA

slug · 20/11/2017 13:22

Oh dear. The youth of today are so uninformed. I've just been in a twitter spat conversation with a young transgender person about this who simply repeated the mantra "Transwomen are women"

I responded with
"War is Peace
Freedom is Slavery
Ignorance is Strength"

And s/he ran away. I'm not entirely sure they got the 1984 reference.

Sentimentallentil · 20/11/2017 13:23

This is her talking about the bathroom policy at her school.

m.youtube.com/watch?v=i6N_bv3BMgA

If you have any problem with boys using the girls toilets then you are literally killing children.

I actually agree about the uniform, it’s ridiculous that boys can’t wear skirts they should just have the same uniform, if it’s smart enough for one sex it’s smart enough for everyone, but bathrooms are a totally seperate issue.

PricklyBall · 20/11/2017 13:24

cat it wouldn't have made any difference. I've never worn makeup and I've only just won my equal pay case - and then only because my Union took it to court. And I've been in the workplace for decades. Makeup, no makeup, you're screwed either way. One might almost think it had something to do with those pesky xx chromosomes.

Datun · 20/11/2017 13:25

NettleTea

I agree. It’s wrong on every level.

It’s actually embarrassing. I’m almost half laughing because I feel so cringed out on behalf of the people who allowed this to happen.

And yes, I know it’s not funny. But when something becomes as farcical is this my inner snorting is like a safety valve.

Oblomov17 · 20/11/2017 13:27

OMFG This is getting worse. This boy has such awful views. How did his Lawyer win this? I don't get it.

ArcheryAnnie · 20/11/2017 13:28

Good for Lily

Why, @EleanorXx ? What's Lily done that helps women?

NettleTea · 20/11/2017 13:28

If its anything like our CLP, the position could have been vacant anyway, and he just proposed himself and someone seconded. Its hard to get people to do these jobs because its alot of time and no pay. Not even expenses. Its not a one stop glory party

BeyondNoone · 20/11/2017 13:29

Nineteen.
Nine-fucking-teen.

🙄

SabineDeux · 20/11/2017 13:30

Labour hates women. It's always been a misogynistic party.

Datun · 20/11/2017 13:30

Don’t these kids realise that their inane, self obsessed witterings are stuck on the Internet forever? For all to see?

I give this kid two weeks. I think he’s going to find that Instagram and YouTube do not constitute society.

RedToothBrush · 20/11/2017 13:31

Why, @EleanorXx ? What's Lily done that helps women?

I'd also argue what's Lily done that helps transwomen?

In my opinion, I think its rather more open to debate than some might think...

GardenGeek · 20/11/2017 13:31

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Sentimentallentil · 20/11/2017 13:34

It’s all so manipulative, conflating seperate issues and saying they are the same thing or are connected to each other is total gaslighting.

Teenage suicide and bullying is not a trans issue, it affects teenage girls as well and they don’t have an army of flag wavers telling them how ‘brave’ they are. Rigid gender roles is shit for everyone. Has anyone done any research into bullying and suicide of girls who have spoken against wanting boys in their space?

Datun · 20/11/2017 13:35

Why, @EleanorXx ? What's Lily done that helps women?

You won’t get a single answer. From that poster or the previous one who said we are transphobic.

In my head I see them, as automatons, eyes glazed, speaking only to repeat the mantra.

I have yet to see any discourse where women’s questions are addressed, let alone answered.

I’d almost have more respect for somebody who said it’s because you’re women we think you’re shit.

BatShite · 20/11/2017 13:36

Is it mean to hope that this teenager will be deluged with constituents wanting to discuss discrimination during pregnancy, maternity leave, abortion rights, teenage mothers, breast cancer care, #MeToo, sex discrimination, assault, HRT and work-life balance?

Cis-sexist and transmysoginistic to be worried about these issues. Discussing female issues would greatly pain a transwomen as it would remind them that they will never actually be female. So fuck off with the bigotry in bringing such problems to the most oppressed in society. A male person.

Fucks sake, its ridiculous really. I see we have has the usual 'transwoman is not male' post...what IS a transwoman then? Male or female? Using the normal definitions of these words, not the rebranded ones in which female includes males...which is bonkers.

IsaSchmisa · 20/11/2017 13:36

Yes, even a 19 year old natal woman would be unlikely to have sufficient lived experience to be able to do the role adequately.

Datun · 20/11/2017 13:37

NettleTea

What does he actually have to do? What is his job description?

Are there competences that he has to fulfil?

ArcheryAnnie · 20/11/2017 13:37

Labour hates women. It's always been a misogynistic party.

SabineDeux there's always been misogynists in the Labour Party, same as every other party, but I'd disagree entirely with your post, because Labour has also always been full of brilliant, feminist women who have helped make life better for other women. Equal Pay act, abortion rights, and all the rest of it. I won't ignore or discount their work, or the work of the women still in the Labour Party who are fighting for women and girls.

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