It's easy to tell when someone is using a situation to highlight 'an issue' because they actually hold anybody in that category in contempt. Deceive yourselves if you must.
And this is the nub. How do trans activists explain that women who fought against discrimination in different forms for years suddenly and magically became bigots? I marched against the Criminal Justice Bill because of offenders, the awful Section 28 because of gay people, supported immigration, shelters for women and homeless men. I supported men of colour against the shocking behaviour of the police in the 80s. Even though none of those groups were me. I support trans people to live their lives. There is no hatred here.
What there is is a realisation that if we don't push back, one day my child will need a cell-mate, or shelter worker, or gynecologist, or rape counselor, or sports team, or sexual partner, or midwife and she might want that person or people to be chosen based on sex. And she won't have that choice because gender (made up shit) has been deemed to be more important. None of the trans people I know think that way. But that's the flow.