To have blocked her off FB?

[Voovinnie]

Sorry, I know lots of people cringe at the word Facebook but you don't have to know anything about it to comment, really.

Last Friday I had a miscarriage at 10+ weeks. To cut a long story short, I deleted one of my 'friends' from Facebook because she was always posting about 'need a fucking fag' and people would comment about how their midwives had told them quiting smoking would be more harm than good for their DC, or 'Me and baby girl enjoying a nice cuppa and ciggy' (She is 28 weeks pregnant).

I found her so hurtful and lots of irrational things went through my head, including "why was my baby taken from me, yet she's allowed to remain a Mother?"

Anyway, another friend of mine said I shouldn't have taken her off, and just unfollowed her so I wouldn't see her posts. Thing is though, I found her so shocking, I didn't want her there at all.

Fast forward to yesterday evening, and this is the text she sent me.
Should I have just unfollowed?

Thank you

That's a despicable thing to say. Really unforgivable.

You're well rid.

Do people really post that they're enjoying a cigarette with their unborn child?

What a hurtful thing for her to send. She sounds like a prize bitch

So sorry to hear about your miscarriage.

God no, she sounds like a cunt. Chaff from the wheat and all. So sorry about you MC

Wow, what a cunt. No, YANBU. Vile woman

And so sorry about your MC

YANBU, you're entitled to have or defriend whoever you like, and her text to you was vile and unkind. She's also wrong to smoke during pregnancy, and i can understand your feelings.

I'm sorry for your loss

You know you weren't. Why are you even asking? Don't give it another thought and perhaps choose your friends more carefully in future.

My god. What a prize bitch.
You have done the right thing.
I hope you find peace soon.

She's selfish, cruel, and common. You're far better off without her in your life. But I think you know that.

What an utterly vile creature
Believe me my lovely, you neither want nor need this woman in your life.
I'm sorry for your loss

She's a twat. Ywnbu

I don't think I've ever read anything so hurtful, she's is vile alnd ignorant and Yanbu.

Yanbu to delete her off Facebook, it's your Facebook

You are unreasonable to argue over text
You are unreasonable to judge her on the smoking so much

I'm so sorry for your loss. She sounds like an utter cunt. I wouldn't bother talking to her ever again.

I hope for your sake you've made this up.

Shocking!! You don't need to have anything to do with someone capable of being so nasty,truly nasty piece of work. Hope you are ok OP?

Jesus what a vile bitch. She sounds very Jeremy Kyle.

I'm so, so sorry for the loss of your little baby. This bitch does not deserve to be a mother. Cut her out of your life, not just FB.

The only thing YABU about is ever being FB friends with such a disgusting illiterate specimen.

Block and delete. And take care of yourself .

What an awful cow. Or, in more mn terms, what a thundering cuntbag. You've deleted her from Facebook now delete her from as many areas of your life as you possibly can.

Commiserations on your recent loss.

So sorry for your mc what a vile bitch - you are well rid. Her antagonising you at such a time... She clearly has no idea.

I am really sorry for your loss op. That is no friend. I have no words. I lost a DD and it is not horrendously unfair. Seeing some of the smoking mums outside the hospital used to really get to me as I felt it was so unfair too. It's a difficult time, take care of yourself.

That is a Level Ubercunt comment to make, I think that has completely vindicated your decision to remove her.

What's your relationship with her, actual friend, or FB acquaintance: are there any other ties you need to cut?