......to think a strap-on dildo might be the answer?

[ReallyWantsIt]

so, backstory is that dh has erectile disfunction, has seen gp got pills and so on but limited success. anyone used one of these contraptions successfully, does it feel real?

sorry what is your AIBU?

But a strap on will be you doing him up the bum. Do you mean you want to try a vibrator?

realises this is possibly not real

Does your DH want to use a strap on?

You want him to fuck you with a strap on? Is that what he wants?

...so how does your DH get pleasure from this?

Not another one of these freds…

I would say that is definitely not the answer.. Not for him anyway!!

In fact do away with men completely so basically you want a hands free vibrator? Made out of aan electric toothbrush ?

Seriously, it's not even the school holidays, you've just got a Monday off. Don't you have any homework?

Are you serious?

Have you tried Smoked Applewood?

Is tonight not a school night, hm?
Off you pop to beady-byes, OP. You'll do so much better at school tomorrow if you have a good night's sleep.
And no wanting, you hear?!

Darn.
wanking

Clearly Autocorrect does not approve either.

i am actually serious and i haven't seen any other threads. we are willing to try anything. I thought there is a sort that he fits over himself.

I believe toblerones are the appliance of choice these days.

Do you mean a condom?

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Eh?

Hi all, thanks to those who flagged this. As far as we can see the OP has been with us a very long time, with no history of trolling. Let's give her the benefit of the doubt right now.

If you really are serious..... And you really would like a genuine real answer.... And you really aren't a 14 year old hormone riddled boy....

Then I would completely ignore the erectile dysfunction, and find other ways of gaining pleasure. A friend of mine went through this patc, she now calls her partner courvoisier.... A real fancy liquor there are plenty of ways means and fun to be had.

The more you make it a problem, the more it'll stand out. Or not as the case may be. I suspect using a giant plastic strap on penis may make him feel inferior, yes

Ok, fair enuff - apologies from me, Really.

ED is a distressing problem.
Has your DH explored other options apart from tablets?
Has he tried different medications, at different strength and on several occasions?
Has he explored MUSE, vacuum devices, psycho-sexual counselling?
Been seen at an expert Men's Health clinic?

As a last resort a penile prosthesis may be worth a consideration. Not without risks, but at least if successful would give you both some pleasure.

Oh, yes, and a dildo is clearly NOT going to be helpful.

Lets start back at the beginning.

Why does he have ED. Has this been investigated or did the GP just throw a prescription at him? How old is he?