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To wonder why the Press aren't banging on about the age difference between George and Amal?

189 replies

CateBlanket · 12/09/2014 21:45

looking at these pictures he could be her dad but are the Press banging on about the 16 year age difference? Er no. You don't think it's because he's a man, do you? If a woman of 53 was marrying a 36 year old man, she'd be labelled a cougar and he'd be a toyboy but Amal isn't being called a toy girl!

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EddieStobbart · 12/09/2014 21:48

Yep, look at Madonna, Sam Taylor-Wood. When it's a massive age difference and he's loaded, the most extreme it gets is "sugar daddy". Bradley Cooper is much older than his GF and there is rarely a comment.

CateBlanket · 12/09/2014 22:03

Michael Douglas is another who looks like his spouse's parent but the Press are much too tactful to ever mention it whereas Madonna gets ridiculed for her choice in younger men!

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squoosh · 12/09/2014 22:11

I don't think he looks old enough to be her dad. She's one of those women that looks 45 now and will probably look 45 when she's 65. Age gaps between a couple who are past their twenties aren't really that noteworthy, although I agree the press, esp. The Mail would make a huge deal if she was 53 and he was 36.

Sam Taylor Wood and her partner I found quite weird as they have a 24 year gap and got together when he was only 19.

I've just thought, Courtney Cox has recently married a younger man, the press don't seem to have made big hoo ha out of that. Or I haven't noticed if they have.

Bakeoffcakes · 12/09/2014 22:11

I don't think there is much of an age gap. She's 36, it's not as of she's 19.

EvilRingahBitch · 12/09/2014 22:12

To be fair the age difference between Douglas and Zeta-Jones is so large (25 years) that it does get mentioned all the time, and the Taylor-Wood age gap is so big (and he was so young to start with) that it would be eye-opening either way round.

But you have a point that more moderate differences like 15 years get ignored if the man is older and fixated on if the woman is older. And really really large differences like Clint Eastwood's latest marriage (35 years) would be considered freakish for a woman.

limitedperiodonly · 12/09/2014 22:17

Christ, haven't they married yet?

Anyone would think they weren't seriously in love and it was a total sham.

redandyellowbits · 12/09/2014 22:19

limitedperiodonly Grin

littlewhitebag · 12/09/2014 22:22

I fail to see the problem regarding a 53 year old marrying a 36 year old regardless of the sex of either. It's a non issue. They are both consenting adults.

Stratter5 · 12/09/2014 22:30

Is 16 years really a big age gap? Confused

squoosh · 12/09/2014 22:32

I don't think so.

IScreamForIceCream · 12/09/2014 22:34

Perhaps because in this case, the age gap is the very least remarkable thing about it.

OldF0ssil · 12/09/2014 22:35

Yeh sam taylor wood and a 19 year old, that did make me think whoah really?

CZJ and MD have split up.

Stratter5 · 12/09/2014 22:37

Perhaps because in this case, the age gap is the very least remarkable thing about it.

Well, there is that to it Grin

PetiteRaleuse · 12/09/2014 22:37

When CZJ and MD got together it was alllll about the age difference. But against her - making her out to be a money grabbing starlet.

Waltermittythesequel · 12/09/2014 22:39

Because he's George Clooney. So he's allowed.

And even though everybody knows it, nobody talks about it.....

PedlarsSpanner · 12/09/2014 22:39

His head is ENORMOUS

RustyDalek · 12/09/2014 22:40

I don't think 16 years is a big age gap either - my Dad was 38 and my mum 22 when they married, and my 23 year old nephew married a 39 year old woman (who he met online on a gaming forum in case anyone needs any more ammunition) They recently celebrated their fifth anniversary, which is rather more than some of their critics managed....

Alisvolatpropiis · 12/09/2014 22:41

I think with both Madonna and Sam Taylor Wood the difference is they have daughters who are closer in age with their partners than they are themselves.

People mention the Zeta Jones and Douglas age gap all the time. I don't think that is helped by the fact they share a birthdate...exactly 25 years apart.

Much older woman/much younger man is less usual than much older man/much younger woman though, generally speaking. So of course the Daily Mail is going to pounce on it, it is what they do. Difference must be derided and stamped out.

OutragedFromLeeds · 12/09/2014 22:45

16 years isn't that big an age gap, but further down the sidebar of shame there is an article about Denise Welch and her 'toyboy husband'. The age gap there is 14 years. I think the OP has a point.

squoosh · 12/09/2014 22:48

I thought Denise Welch was married to the little man from Auf Wiedersehn Pet who looks like a mole.

Nancy66 · 12/09/2014 22:49

I don't think the age gap is that huge to be significant.

Madonna was dating teenagers at one point

Nancy66 · 12/09/2014 22:50

Denise Welch married another bloke with a funny name who used to be gay but isn't any more

AlleyCat11 · 12/09/2014 22:57

I thought Denise Welch was much older than her bloke... I must be thinking about Carol from Loose Women. Her guy is hawt. Ahem! Anyway, agree with OP. I've no issues with age gaps, either way.
It must be because George gave the Daily Mail a dressing down recently, when they said his MIL wasn't keen.

AlleyCat11 · 12/09/2014 22:59

Really Nancy? I knew my gaydar was on to that guy!

Nancy66 · 12/09/2014 23:08

actually, I've just looked it up and it was some other bloke before the new husband she was with who used to be gay.

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