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To be upset about my wedding venue?

996 replies

IfIDontKnowAndYouDontKnow · 13/10/2013 16:16

Name changed
Basically have a tiny budget. We were going to cut our guest list but we don't want to. We love everyone on it.
Have been offered The British Legion as a venue for free. Best man works evenings there.
We have decided to take it so we can afford to give everyone a nice time. Its bloody ugly inside. Has lovely big field though/n pretty outside etc.
I know I chose this, and I am not wanting to save up for few years as I just want to marry dp and have all our friends and family there. And would be stupid to not accept such a generous offer.
Just venting I guess... and wondering what to do about the fading carpet, chipped paint, arcade machine...

OP posts:
IfIDontSnowAndYouDontSnow · 03/02/2014 00:00

Oops dont know what happened there Confused .

Mushroomsoup does the thread run out on 1000 posts then?

IfIDontSnowAndYouDontSnow · 03/02/2014 09:50

Ihope that doesnt mean the thread will be deleted?

ToffeeOwnsTheSausage · 03/02/2014 13:35

The thread won't be deleted. You just can't add past 1000 posts.

LoopyDoopyDoo · 03/02/2014 13:49

Lovely thread, just nominated for classics :)

IfIDontSnowAndYouDontSnow · 03/02/2014 14:50

ToffeeOwnsTheSausage thanks for letting me know. Will add a new thread when the time comes.

LoppyDoopyDoo how lovely of you. That's made my day, thank you Wine .

HoratiaDrelincourt · 03/02/2014 16:08

Do it soon (in Weddings maybe?) and post the link here so you don't lose anybody x

HoratiaDrelincourt · 03/02/2014 16:09

ERMAGOD I just kissed on MN.

::slaps self::

Sorry. As you were.

IfIDontSnowAndYouDontSnow · 03/02/2014 18:58

Kisses Horatia back Grin .

So post it in weddings? Was thinking chat, weddings make sense though. Will do that in a while.

HoratiaDrelincourt · 03/02/2014 23:38

Not Chat - it autodeletes after ninety days. You don't want to lose anything...

Charlesroi · 04/02/2014 09:11

Ooh yes, new thread is essential. I need to know Grin

MushroomSoup · 04/02/2014 21:23

ARRRGH! Only 13 more messages!

IfIDontSnowAndYouDontSnow · 06/02/2014 10:10

New thread for when this one runs out.

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/a1880617-To-be-upset-about-my-wedding-venue

IfIDontSnowAndYouDontSnow · 06/02/2014 10:21

Oops sorry. Wrong link & it's not working anyway.

Try this: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/wedding/1989722-The-wedding-thread-continued-Except-this-time-I-love-the-venue

IfIDontSnowAndYouDontSnow · 08/02/2014 10:53

Now I need to find out how long roughly the ceremony takes so I can book a space in the bar area afterwards.

Also need to start working out rough coats of the reception food at the legion. Still like the ploughmans idea though, so at least that bit is decided. Kind of disapointed about losing the tea though.

IfIDontSnowAndYouDontSnow · 08/02/2014 10:54

Posted before I'd finished. Also getting started on invites.
Not sure how to word them. Confused

IfIDontSnowAndYouDontSnow · 10/02/2014 13:30

I actually still cant shake the feeling that I want our friends there too.
Not sure what to do there.

IfIDontSnowAndYouDontSnow · 11/02/2014 18:54

So next on my list is bridesmaid dresses. Am going for a mismatched type look, IYKWIM. Prob soft pinks, knee length. Any ideas.? Obviously budget friendly.

IfIDontSnowAndYouDontSnow · 11/02/2014 18:59

Kind of like these ( the first pic mostly)

indulgy.com/post/T5KSBZLdx1/mismatched-bridesmaids-dress

IfIDontSnowAndYouDontSnow · 11/02/2014 22:45

Hello? ( echo )

HoratiaDrelincourt · 11/02/2014 23:09

Get back on your new thread, you plonker! No space to reply here Wink Grin

IfIDontSnowAndYouDontSnow · 11/02/2014 23:53

Grin Will do. Wine

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