to ask if you met your soulmate?

[weddingringdilemma]

I realised with a jolt the other day at age 38, married with 4 children, that I didn't.
Eh and I get on ok, and when we first met I did think he was my One. If there is such a thing, and I still believe there us. But if it weren't for the children I'm pretty sure we wouldn't be together... He has no conversation, at least for me, though I love talking, chatting, discussing stuff. It's like getting blood out of a stone talking to him though he lights up around other people. We have little in common, he loves the outdoors, camping etc, which I don't. I'm pretty sure he finds my interests such as craft and shopping boring and shallow. Sometimes when we fight I can tell he truly dislikes me, and I feel the same way. We don't fight often, and get on well sometimes. But there's no way he's my soulmate...if he exists, I'm never going to meet him now as I would never leave my marriage and break up our family.

[KittyFane]

NoHun you're just showing off :o

[NoHunIntended]

Kitty, I just wanted some biscuits! :o

[HappyCamel]

I believe in soul mates. I met mine at uni, we did the eyes across a crowded room thing, could talk for hours. He had a girlfriend though and didn't feel right splitting up with her because of an OW so we were never more than friends.

I'm happily married now but it isn't as easy I think it would have been with him. I don't dare get back in contact with him, maybe if I'm ever a widow I'll see if I can find out if he's single.

[KittyFane]

Oh sorry, here's two for you!

Pfft.

[NoHunIntended]

Delicious. I shall share them with my soulmate. Thank you, Kitty. :)

[KittyFane]

:o

[Beaverfeaver]

I am a bit of a misanthropist and like my own company.

I find it difficult to want to be around people.

However, I have been with my OH for over 10 years now and he is the only person I know that I have not had a problem being around regulary.