The OFFICIAL buddy bench/naughty bench thread No. 4

[Teaandcakeplease]

Come hither all those who haven't found their place on mumsnet, have scrapped in Aibu or crossed words in chat. The buddy bench shalt not judge.

The buddy bench will hand out wine and cakes, it will join you on your scoffathons getting pissed

All those who sit on the bench, will have their sins erased and be given a warm welcome and cheerful chat from CheerfulYank, gomummy, tired mum, Elmo, AF, HE, Cheesey and far, far too many more to mention.

Welcome to the buddy bench, we look forward to meeting you all

Oh and don't forget, last one to leave polishes bench and locks up!

I know, I squeezed the breath out of DS this morning and played with him as much as he wanted. :(

I would like to do something, but what?

I know its so so sad

God help them .
I am going to light a candle at mass tomorrow morning for their little ds don't know what else to do .

Really shocking isn't it? So sad

I mentioned on the thread that I would light a candle in my window tonight.

When DS asked why I was crying I told him (a little bit only, he's not quite four) and he said, "The little boy has gone to God." :( I really hope so...

Aww bless your ds cheerful, its so hard to explain to little ones without
frightening them. I too hope your ds is right

It is shocking valium especially as he was seemingly
perking up a little bit then this happens.

It is so very sad. :( Another candle will be here tonight, along with a prayer for their poor family, I cannot imagine what they must be going through.

I have only just seen, i am so shocked, and so very sad for her and her family. My boys have had loadsa hugs and kisses today.
I havent wanted to put jamie down at all

I will answer my pm's a bit later

Hope all is ok with you all otherwise x

So sad

Tired mum hows' the packing going and how's the little man?

Fab weather today here, tomorrow is meant to be 16 degrees centigrade (60.8 degree Fahrenheit). Ooo yay I lurve Spring!

@ Tea, shall I send you pics of the blizzard we are currently receiving to further your appreciation of your beautiful weather? 5cm so far this afternoon and counting.

Oh yes do!

Don't read my fb status then, as I'm drying washing outside and having a whale of a time in this Spring weather

Your poor thing that's awful, when does it warm up over there?

Soon hopefully! Sent you a pic on FB!

I haven't received any messages from you

It was 5 your temp here today! Hurrah! But apparently that blizzard is headed our way gomummy. :(

DH is going to Las Vegas for a week (leaving tomorrow) and I don't know what I'll do if DS and I are stuck inside for days and days. Ugh!

Re-sent it Tea, hope it arrives this time. Will make you v. appreciative of hanging clothes out already! :)

Cheerful I am so terribly of your DH! We got married at the Bellagio.

Our blizzard has finally left, hope it's not headed for you, it was the really messy wet snow that makes the roads a wreck. Being stuck inside does equate to copious amounts of baking though!

Morning :)

Urghhhhh just had a mummy dilemma , ds came home from school yesterday feeling sick and didn't eat tea. Slept all night AND ate breakfast but was a bit teary and said he felt rotten. So, I gave him Calpol and wrote in his planner that I would come and get him if if got worse. He's had SO much time off since starting this new school, I felt I had to 'push' him a bit. He went off quite happily when his mate called for him this morning.

The school will ring won't they,if he's still bad?

Morning all

Ahh valium you poor thing , i hate that feeling of uncertainty but you did the right thing , try relax & have a nice , i'm sure the school will phone you if he is still feeling sick .

gomummy at you still having snow storms , wish spring would hurry up & kick in for you x

You're right, I'm over it now elmo and they haven't phoned yet so , so far so good!

It was meant to be Spring like here but I have freezing feet!!!

Ah well thats good
Make him something nice for when he gets in from school to ease your guilt cheer him up

How is your ds now valium ?

I've had a bit of a run in with a mum from dd's class < EEK >

Ooooooooo do tell elmo!

Ds phoned me in tears on the way home - he had fallen and banged his leg badly. A nice mum from the school gave him a lift home. he's all white a shaky but wants a fish finger sandwich so I think he's tummy ache has gone!

Aw poor thing , yes clever boy knows a fish finger sandwich is good for the shock

In the middle of cooking dinner & its a long story so i promise to pop back later to tell you all about it .......

ok