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WillowTit · Today 07:10

the poor family

Dontlletmedownbruce · Today 07:13

MrsKiplingsSauna · Today 01:20

Speculation?

Are you saying you could not outrun a 3 year old?

My 3 yr old could run like the wind, you would be amazed at the speed. With a few seconds headstart I absolutely could not catch him, he was agile like a monkey and could climb extremely quickly so could scale a fence or crawl under a gate in seconds. He had some close calls and this could so easily have happened to us.

Goodwitchglenda · Today 07:14

Really hoping they find him, his mum must be going through absolute hell.

This is my worst nightmare as a mum to an autistic kid. We do use reins in certain circs and I don’t give a fuck if they’re unfashionable. We wouldn’t use them in a playground though. My brother (also autistic, very profoundly) was also a bolter and they can just move so fast.

The Nora Quorin case has haunted me - I cried at my desk in the office when they found her.

My hope is that the noise from the searching has caused him to hide and that he will be found now it’s light again.

NewLifter · Today 07:15

ChopSueyCharcuterieBoard · Today 06:33

You really believe theres nothing wrong with coming on a post about a missing child and speculating about the involvement of family members?

I completely agree with you

Never2many · Today 07:16

zipitpls · Today 06:07

Why isn’t it front page news on the BBC?

Because it’s a local story. As desperately sad as it is, children who run and go missing for a period isn’t uncommon.

There don’t appear to be suspicious circumstances which might warrant national interest or the need for it to be reported nationally. It’s simply a case of a local child having bolted and not been found.

User3353821614 · Today 07:16

NewLifter · Today 07:15

I completely agree with you

Me too - that poster is the nasty one.

ForGreenExpert · Today 07:17

zipitpls · Today 06:07

Why isn’t it front page news on the BBC?

Absolutely baffled by this pointless moaning. The BBC website doesn't even have a front page?!

I think Noah's story has reached everyone it needs to in the local area judging by the amount of searchers.

Emelene · Today 07:20

Poor family. I read he was with grandad? My thought was this could have happened to us too. 3 year olds can be so fast. I really hope they find him ASAP.

Fizbosshoes · Today 07:21

I didnt see or hear any news yesterday, so this is the first ive heard. Poor thing, he must be so so frightened, and poor family must be out of their mind. Hoping he is found safely

cloudbabies · Today 07:22

This makes me feel sick, that little baby must be so frightened. I hope he is found, hopefully he is hiding somewhere ? My mind also goes to has he been snatched ? Fell in water ? Oh god

zipitpls · Today 07:24

ForGreenExpert · Today 07:17

Absolutely baffled by this pointless moaning. The BBC website doesn't even have a front page?!

I think Noah's story has reached everyone it needs to in the local area judging by the amount of searchers.

When you click on the BBC app, it shows headlines.

I think a missing three year old is more important than the Ed Sheeran headline but the BBC evidently disagree.

@Never2many i would agree if it had been a few hours but given it’s now overnight as well I think it’s tipped into national and urgent news TBH.

3 year old boy (Noah) missing in Brantham, Suffolk
zipitpls · Today 07:25

cloudbabies · Today 07:22

This makes me feel sick, that little baby must be so frightened. I hope he is found, hopefully he is hiding somewhere ? My mind also goes to has he been snatched ? Fell in water ? Oh god

The water thing is a massive worry, there was a really sad case in the Easter holidays where a little girl ran off and drowned in a pond.

Hopefully he’s hidden somewhere and nodded off.

HedgerowD · Today 07:26

CrazyMidget · Today 01:31

I think toddler reins are frowned upon by the wokery these days, but I honestly cannot understand why everyone isn't using them. Would have made it much harder for those evil boys to snatch James Bulger all those years ago, and surely they're amazing for making sure your child doesn't dart into traffic or run off into other danger, like this little boy seems to have done. And you don't have to be quite so constantly hypervigilant about where they are every second. You never see reins these days, in fact I don't think they were ever actually popular. Which is amazing given how many dangers they help avoid.

We used them when our toddler was a little younger and would run off. But we would take them off for the park so I don't see how they could have helped in this situation.

Frenemies · Today 07:28

Latteapparel · Today 07:03

Absolutely terrifying, I can’t begin to imagine how the parents must be feeling and I pray he is found soon.

I’m not a parent but I do wonder why we don’t put AirTags or some sort of tracking device on children, at least until they reach a certain age/communication ability. I know it sounds very big brother but we hear all too often of missing little ones. We microchip our pets for this reason.

My brother-in-law was the firefighter who retrieved the body of a non-verbal autistic 12 year old from a river in our area a couple of years ago. It was heartbreaking.

Am I crazy to wonder why this isn’t done?

I used to put an AirTag on my youngest if we were going to busy, crowded places (airports, theme parks etc) we didn’t use it generally at home as she wasn’t a runner and AirTags don’t really work around us anyway (very rural). She was a bit of a monkey about finding the tag and pulling it off though. We would reason with her, promise her an ice cream if she kept it on etc but I can imagine it might be harder with an autistic child, possibly with sensory issues.

I must correct you on pet microchips though, you can’t track them. You can only scan them to read owners details. Not useful for lost pets.

Bunnycat101 · Today 07:31

Oh gosh, if that’s true re the grandad that is really sad. I have a relative that went missing due to a mental health crisis. The police found her very quickly in woodland via a helicopter and thermal cameras. If they haven’t found him yet, I’d have thought he’s not in the open. You just have to hope he’s hiding in a building somewhere.

Latteapparel · Today 07:35

Frenemies · Today 07:28

I used to put an AirTag on my youngest if we were going to busy, crowded places (airports, theme parks etc) we didn’t use it generally at home as she wasn’t a runner and AirTags don’t really work around us anyway (very rural). She was a bit of a monkey about finding the tag and pulling it off though. We would reason with her, promise her an ice cream if she kept it on etc but I can imagine it might be harder with an autistic child, possibly with sensory issues.

I must correct you on pet microchips though, you can’t track them. You can only scan them to read owners details. Not useful for lost pets.

Yes you’re right about the microchips, only useful if found. With all the technology that exists nowadays you would think there would be something to help in these dreadful and sad circumstances. Thank you for not thinking my comment was ludicrous.

AutumnLover1999 · Today 07:36

Praying he's found really soon. His poor parents 😭

Rituelec · Today 07:37

Still no news. It was cold overnight. How can there be no trace?

I want to go and help but don't want to be in way. Lots of waterways there :(

violetcuriosity · Today 07:38

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No, it was his grandad. Multiple witnesses saw Noah run off. Grandad was in absolute bits, it’s horrific

TheSunIsAlwaysThere · Today 07:39

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Why would you say such a thing?

And for those lacking in reading comprehension, I m talking about the first part of the sentence of course.

violetcuriosity · Today 07:40

There are hundreds of people still looking for him with another meet to search at 8am here.

TheSunIsAlwaysThere · Today 07:43

Piknik · Yesterday 23:10

Absolute worst nightmare.

The only positive here is that he apparently ran off. By that I mean that the catalyst for him initially disappearing was because of something he did rather than someone else. I keep hoping that he his overwhelmed and hiding somewhere.

It's so difficult that he won't answer to his name being called - but again, I am hoping that might mean he is close by but not responding.

Everything crossed for this poor family.

That means nothing. Noah could have run off to play and then been taken or fallen and hurt himself or worse.

AustenitesUnite · Today 07:44

My friend has twins and the little rascals used to run off in different directions!

And some young children (not mine!) seem to have incredible stamina for walking

Hoping and praying that little Noah will soon be found . . . I'm sure that people in that vicinity, who know the area well, will be doing absolutely everything they can to find him

thehound4 · Today 07:46

Never2many · Today 07:16

Because it’s a local story. As desperately sad as it is, children who run and go missing for a period isn’t uncommon.

There don’t appear to be suspicious circumstances which might warrant national interest or the need for it to be reported nationally. It’s simply a case of a local child having bolted and not been found.

Try telling that to his parents. Most (normal) people are interested nationally and are praying for a good outcome.

ladyjaynes · Today 07:46

AustenitesUnite · Today 07:44

My friend has twins and the little rascals used to run off in different directions!

And some young children (not mine!) seem to have incredible stamina for walking

Hoping and praying that little Noah will soon be found . . . I'm sure that people in that vicinity, who know the area well, will be doing absolutely everything they can to find him

I had two a year apart. They always ran in different directions. It was terrifying and happens so quickly. Really hope this little
boy is just hiding