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Bitsostuff · Today 08:57

InNewYorkNoShoes · Today 08:55

We have all done silly things raising children and nothing bad happened because of luck I guess. I wouldn’t ever judge any parent for a mistake especially at the worst time of their lives.

What mistake do you think they made exactly? And where are you getting your information from?

Fondmemories · Today 08:58

AustenitesUnite · Today 08:56

I think the PP was responding to the post above hers, stating the little boy had been found

So she wasn't saying the story about the little boy being missing wasn't on the BBC, she was saying that there was no news of him being found on there

Yes that's correct

ForeverPombear · Today 08:59

I wouldn't believe anything about him being found if it's coming from social media, there's far too many sick people who think it's funny to say stuff like that.

Girlwithavibe · Today 08:59

Sending hope and prayers that he is found safe and unhurt poor parents must be beside themselves 😞

Tryagain26 · Today 08:59

Missohnoyoubetterdont · Today 08:40

This is ridiculous. Do you know how many children go missing? It would be going off constantly.

And how would it help anyway? If the alert was constantly going off no one would take any notice of it, like car alarms.
I hope he is found safe and well soon. I can't imagine how his poor family must be feeling. My sympathies are with them .

excitedfortea · Today 09:03

I live in Brantham. The media said there was over 100 volunteers looking but honestly it was more like 1000. So so many people. My husband was on hands and knees looking through brambles. The issue is there’s so many brambles and shrubs he could have crawled and hidden in. His dad has posted this morning saying he still has not been found. The community are all rallying round including a local coffee cart who parked up last night to give squash and coffees to searchers. Just feeding my baby then going to search this morning.

InNewYorkNoShoes · Today 09:03

Bitsostuff · Today 08:57

What mistake do you think they made exactly? And where are you getting your information from?

The kid ran off. The grandad might not have been watching him for 30 seconds - it’s a mistake we all made as humans/parents that’s why I don’t blame them or judge them.i would guess most of our kids have rolled off the bed or fell off a chair or touched something hot at some point in 18 years or more of parenting.

Added - I am getting my information (?) from the news. Same as everyone on here.

hotmumshit · Today 09:04

Amber alerts are sent to phones in America

I think its a great idea.

hotmumshit · Today 09:04

And i don't have an air tag on autistic dd 🥺 - will buy one on payday but its not like she wears the same thing everyday.

CandyCrushLevel14809 · Today 09:05

AustenitesUnite · Today 08:56

I think the PP was responding to the post above hers, stating the little boy had been found

So she wasn't saying the story about the little boy being missing wasn't on the BBC, she was saying that there was no news of him being found on there

Oh I see. Sorry.

BeMellowAquaSquid · Today 09:05

excitedfortea · Today 09:03

I live in Brantham. The media said there was over 100 volunteers looking but honestly it was more like 1000. So so many people. My husband was on hands and knees looking through brambles. The issue is there’s so many brambles and shrubs he could have crawled and hidden in. His dad has posted this morning saying he still has not been found. The community are all rallying round including a local coffee cart who parked up last night to give squash and coffees to searchers. Just feeding my baby then going to search this morning.

Well done you and thankyou for giving your time to help find him ❤️

zipitpls · Today 09:05

BorgQueen · Today 08:35

Why the hell wouldn’t you have an air tag on such a vulnerable child?

My Grandson has one on his teddy in case he ever loses it and that’s a bloody toy!
This isn’t going to have a happy ending unfortunately, that poor boy.

What a horrible post

AustenitesUnite · Today 09:07

Latest update from the BBC ~

"Policing team Sgt Claire Connick has just told volunteers here at Brantham Village Hall to widen their searches away from the village.
She asked people to avoid the village centre, suggesting people go further afield to nearby villages of East Bergholt and Manningtree and working their way back"

excitedfortea · Today 09:08

Just to add we’ve now been asked to widen our searches and Noah’s dad has said the police are confident the high risk areas (especially decoy pond, which is a huge pond) are clear. There were many people searching the pond last night in wetsuits, kayaks etc.

Fairyyqueen · Today 09:09

Latteapparel · Today 07:35

Yes you’re right about the microchips, only useful if found. With all the technology that exists nowadays you would think there would be something to help in these dreadful and sad circumstances. Thank you for not thinking my comment was ludicrous.

I used to use tractive for my cat, it’s a tracker attached to her collar, then I had an app that could see where she and where she had been. I stopped using it as no longer needed it as she just wonders round the woods and nearby streets near our house, but it was really useful. It’s similar to an AirTag I guess, but yeah something like that for kids would be useful!

ANNotherWriter · Today 09:10

Fondmemories · Today 08:46

It's not on BBC news

It is.

AustenitesUnite · Today 09:12

ANNotherWriter · Today 09:10

It is.

I'll repeat my answer (which the PP has confirmed is correct) to another PP who made a similar comment

"I think the PP was responding to the post above hers, stating the little boy had been found

So she wasn't saying the story about the little boy being missing wasn't on the BBC, she was saying that there was no news of him being found on there"

DearCritic · Today 09:12

Fairyyqueen · Today 09:09

I used to use tractive for my cat, it’s a tracker attached to her collar, then I had an app that could see where she and where she had been. I stopped using it as no longer needed it as she just wonders round the woods and nearby streets near our house, but it was really useful. It’s similar to an AirTag I guess, but yeah something like that for kids would be useful!

There’s kids smart watches that offer GPS tracking, if he’s found or for any siblings I’m sure they will be constantly wearing one whenever leaving the house. There’s options out there.

zipitpls · Today 09:13

It is on BBC news but not one of the top headlines. Noah is below petrol and diesel prices, AI, Ed Sheeran’s support acts, global banking and prolific shoplifters.

Netcurtainnelly · Today 09:13

WecanbeheroeslikeBowie · Today 08:54

It was on Cambridgeshire facebook I can't hope it was some bastard winding people up and that the little lad will be found safe.
I found it after googling has he been found yet and the title came up as part of the search.
I don't have facebook or social media it's there in black and white on the google page.
If that makes me odd so what ? I don't give a shit what some random on here thinks about me.

Well you should. There are people going round saying he's been found when he hasn't. Just because your saw it on FB does not make it true.
The truth will be on the main news channels

Netcurtainnelly · Today 09:14

zipitpls · Today 09:13

It is on BBC news but not one of the top headlines. Noah is below petrol and diesel prices, AI, Ed Sheeran’s support acts, global banking and prolific shoplifters.

Just heard it on the radio news headlines it is out there now

Kitte321 · Today 09:14

hotmumshit · Today 09:04

And i don't have an air tag on autistic dd 🥺 - will buy one on payday but its not like she wears the same thing everyday.

You can buy little wrist straps that you fasten the air tag into. We bought them when we took the kids to the Grand Prix, just in case.

HedgerowD · Today 09:14

BorgQueen · Today 08:35

Why the hell wouldn’t you have an air tag on such a vulnerable child?

My Grandson has one on his teddy in case he ever loses it and that’s a bloody toy!
This isn’t going to have a happy ending unfortunately, that poor boy.

Do you have one on your grandchild at all times? I guess not. I suppose if he goes missing at least you'll be able to find his teddy.

PeriPeriMayo · Today 09:15

InNewYorkNoShoes · Today 09:03

The kid ran off. The grandad might not have been watching him for 30 seconds - it’s a mistake we all made as humans/parents that’s why I don’t blame them or judge them.i would guess most of our kids have rolled off the bed or fell off a chair or touched something hot at some point in 18 years or more of parenting.

Added - I am getting my information (?) from the news. Same as everyone on here.

Edited

He ran off, his grandad gave chase and fell over. By the time he'd got back up the boy was out of sight.

BestZebbie · Today 09:16

hotmumshit · Today 09:04

And i don't have an air tag on autistic dd 🥺 - will buy one on payday but its not like she wears the same thing everyday.

Cut the tongue of her shoe and slide it inside, then glue up the tongue again..Or in the hem of her coat, for the autumn/winter (you'll need to change the battery by the next heatwave anyway).