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Does anyone else feel the UK is heading towards a crisis?

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whatnextt · 23/08/2026 00:25

Price rises not coming down, cost of living gone mad, car crashes, heatwave after heat wave, wild fires.
NHS is falling, NHS dentist is like winning the loto, threats from russia.
Bills cost more than anything.
Benefit bill is out of control.
People getting attacked.

I may have missed a few things, but it feels like the UK is just building up to something big gonna kick off.
Im sure it won't but life is just crap right now.
Not to mention we are gonna get a hell of a winter with this EL nion predicted.

I feel like saying lets have a full war and end this crap then re start again( figure of speech), not living just surviving.
And the cost of being a parent now is unreal.

Rant over.

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Lemonfrost · 23/08/2026 09:37

UniquePinkSwan · 23/08/2026 09:28

The people who live in places like Surrey won’t listen. They don’t see it so it’s not happening and everything is ok

That is completely untrue. Have you seen any of the news events over the last few months? It’s outrageous that you come on here and post totally misleading information.

prampushingdownthehighst · 23/08/2026 09:39

Badbadbunny · 23/08/2026 09:00

But part of the national debt problem IS that we took debt at a low interest rate (the country has been in constant deficit for many years). That debt is now being churned as it was never paid off, and it's having to be re-financed at higher interest rates. So the "borrow at low interest rates" has proved to be a pretty bad as lots of people predicted at the time. Debt doesn't go away until it's repaid, and we've not repaid any debt (net) for years (I think we've only repaid anything (net) in a couple of years out of the last 30+. Debt taken out a few years ago at historic lows is now being repaid and replaced by debt at higher interest rates. Taking out low interest debt as a solution only works if you have a tangible plan to be able to pay it off at the end of the low interest term. The UK didn't have such a plan! And borrowing to pay running costs is insane - borrowing should have only ever been to fund investment and growth - the UK borrowed to "balance" the budget to fund routine annual costs like health, benefits, education, foreign aid, etc.

Absolutely!
I wish more people understood what we owe and the interest we pay on the debt
Eye-watering and unsustainable

SunmerWater · 23/08/2026 09:39

Ponoka7 · 23/08/2026 09:23

It isn't just about money being spent, it's the cost of the properties. People can't get a mortgage for the amount they need, even working full time. Many people would need another £40k deposit to make anything work. They aren't spending that on what you describe. Cut all spending and you can save another £5k a year, but six years later the property has gone up again and now younger people are competing with cash/builder/HMO/Airbnb etc buyers.

Average price of first home is £225k. 10-15% is a common middle ground deposit. The government also offers several schemes to help England first-time buyers get on the property ladder, including the First Homes scheme for a 30% to 50% discount on new builds, the Mortgage Guarantee Scheme for 95% LTV mortgages, and the Lifetime ISA providing a 25% bonus on savings.

It is possible if you live the life previous generations had growing up and don’t spend ££££ on crap many of us looking at paid off mortgages in retirement don’t even spend in our 50s.

The planet, financial security and reality will not accommodate endless frittering on senseless crap!

SunmerWater · 23/08/2026 09:40

poolshoes · 23/08/2026 09:34

Younger people have less disposable income than previous generations did at the same age so you need to look outside your narrow experience @SunmerWater

You wouldn’t know looking at what they think is a normal lifestyle!

Lemonfrost · 23/08/2026 09:42

SunmerWater · 23/08/2026 09:39

Average price of first home is £225k. 10-15% is a common middle ground deposit. The government also offers several schemes to help England first-time buyers get on the property ladder, including the First Homes scheme for a 30% to 50% discount on new builds, the Mortgage Guarantee Scheme for 95% LTV mortgages, and the Lifetime ISA providing a 25% bonus on savings.

It is possible if you live the life previous generations had growing up and don’t spend ££££ on crap many of us looking at paid off mortgages in retirement don’t even spend in our 50s.

The planet, financial security and reality will not accommodate endless frittering on senseless crap!

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I must add though that when I was a first time buyer in 2022, I didn’t qualify for any of the incentives because I bought with my husband who had owned property many years before. I found this very unfair.

Happyjoe · 23/08/2026 09:44

Applepieandcustard555 · 23/08/2026 01:20

Surely you can see what's going on around you?

Yes, that's why it's not true.

Mihiginy · 23/08/2026 09:45

The country is in an appalling state, in so many respects but the worst part is that it is simply going to get even worse 😥

Just back from a few days in a Scandinavian country and the disparity between here and there is shocking. The overcrowding, the filth and the state of the roads were visible immediately upon returning to the absolute shit hole that is the UK.

The awful tragedy of those police officers killed by those degenerates only to see a photo of a fucking balloon release, smoke cannons and fireworks for the POS. A fucking balloon release for a scummy POS murderer ffs.

The only thing that could fix the world is neuter most of its inhabitants.

I am in my 40s, I used to be so proud to be British 😥

poolshoes · 23/08/2026 09:48

@SunmerWaterwhy do you think it’s only young people consuming & damaging the planet?!

CorporalJohn · 23/08/2026 09:48

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That I can live with.

It's the fact it's being taken over by moronic half-wits who can spout such rubbish (& probably vote for Farage as well) that pisses me off.

Nothing wrong with the UK that couldn't be fixed by deporting all Reform supporters (& those of similar parties). Vermin, the lot of them.

SunmerWater · 23/08/2026 09:49

Mihiginy · 23/08/2026 09:45

The country is in an appalling state, in so many respects but the worst part is that it is simply going to get even worse 😥

Just back from a few days in a Scandinavian country and the disparity between here and there is shocking. The overcrowding, the filth and the state of the roads were visible immediately upon returning to the absolute shit hole that is the UK.

The awful tragedy of those police officers killed by those degenerates only to see a photo of a fucking balloon release, smoke cannons and fireworks for the POS. A fucking balloon release for a scummy POS murderer ffs.

The only thing that could fix the world is neuter most of its inhabitants.

I am in my 40s, I used to be so proud to be British 😥

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I know it’s bonkers. Many ( not all) in this country seem to think if you spend the bare minimum on services and live a life of debt and spending money unnecessarily you get good services, infrastructure and national/ personal security. 😵‍💫

SunmerWater · 23/08/2026 09:50

poolshoes · 23/08/2026 09:48

@SunmerWaterwhy do you think it’s only young people consuming & damaging the planet?!

It’s not.However it’s younger generations doing a lot of the whining and wanting both their cake and to eat it.

poolshoes · 23/08/2026 09:50

@BadbadbunnyI agree with you, I was just pointing at that they “cheap” money didn’t go into any investment which was wrong

cmonspring · 23/08/2026 09:50

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Absolutely not true. The country is being mismanaged for money, look at the ppe contracts scandal and nothing has come of it. Not enough big corporations paying their fair share in taxes, MPs claim a shit ton of money back in expenses when they’re already on a very healthy salary (they are the benefit scrounges but have you believe it’s the poor and disabled). Privatised water with no accountability, privatised gas with record profits, it is just the rich getting richer and everyone else is sinking.
The billionaire press (and reform) are to blame for the “asylum seekers are the problem” rhetoric as they want you to blame someone else other than the rich people bleeding us dry and hoarding their wealth.

poolshoes · 23/08/2026 09:51

SunmerWater · 23/08/2026 09:50

It’s not.However it’s younger generations doing a lot of the whining and wanting both their cake and to eat it.

Again you need to widen your circle but perhaps for your dc it’s genetic!

SunmerWater · 23/08/2026 09:52

poolshoes · 23/08/2026 09:51

Again you need to widen your circle but perhaps for your dc it’s genetic!

No you need to open your eyes.

poolshoes · 23/08/2026 09:57

SunmerWater · 23/08/2026 09:52

No you need to open your eyes.

Surely it’s my ears as I can’t hear whining with my eyes?

I can read though…

CorporalJohn · 23/08/2026 10:07

Applepieandcustard555 · 23/08/2026 01:20

Surely you can see what's going on around you?

Yes and in no way is the UK "heading towards a crisis". I have seen countries that were and, believe me, we are nothing like heading towards one.

strugglinguphill · 23/08/2026 10:09

Besidemyselfwithworry · 23/08/2026 00:38

One of the school mums I know is a health visitor and she said that a huge number of people aren’t taking their kids to the dentist if they can’t go for free. I think it almost boarders on neglect and like she said the people she visits who moan they can’t afford to take this kids all have the latest play stations, brand new sofas, are going on holiday, potentially smoke, drink, go out for meals etc etc yet they can’t spare £20 for a kids check up every 6-12 months.

priorities

I pay 55 for a quick 5 min dental check for a 5 year old!!

Dragonscaledaisy · 23/08/2026 10:13

the80sweregreat · 23/08/2026 09:21

I agree op, it feels scary and people are scared for the future especially around climate change.

But are still unwilling to take any personal responsibility for the mess they've created.

SunmerWater · 23/08/2026 10:14

poolshoes · 23/08/2026 09:57

Surely it’s my ears as I can’t hear whining with my eyes?

I can read though…

Maybe do both.

Peedoffdoesntcutit · 23/08/2026 10:15

DoYouSellBuckets · 23/08/2026 09:27

I don't disagree that very rapid immigration into Boston changed the town very quickly in a county with very, very low immigration. It was always going to cause problems. The riots and heavy Brexit vote surprised no one. But I'm not sure I agree Boston was 'a lovely market town'. 20 years ago, it was run down, had enormous generational poverty, poor schooling (one of the only large market towns in an enormous county without a grammar school) and problems with drugs (again in a county with low levels of organised crimes). The fens have always been a relatively deprived, low-income area.

When I visited recently, it genuinely did seem like a lovely market town. Fantastic cafes. I'm not saying that immigration was managed well there (it really, really wasn't) but the town seems better kept to me than it ever has.

(Also, Woodhall Spa is lovely - I'd love to live closer!)

Im Confused it has Boston high school and Boston grammar school which I went to and are grammar schools that we sit the 11 plus for?

Have you been recently?! We go back all the time as our family are there- it’s an absolute state! West street is unrecognisable. We go every month and avoid the town centre. When I was a kid there growing up, we used to walk around the town centre and shops like downtown were still there. All that’s gone.

frozendaisy · 23/08/2026 10:24

poolshoes · 23/08/2026 09:12

@SunmerWater It is harder for younger people to buy now, that’s a fact.

It’s harder for them to get in a position to consider it. Secure, decent paid work is needed before a mortgage.

Companies that would’ve invested in UK invest in the EU, organisations that were funded by the EU, with interesting, secure, decently paid positions have obviously moved out.

The UK still has its stock exchange but for how much longer.

Being a serviced based economy Brexit was utterly idiotic and the Brexit god Farage should’ve known that, well he probably did, but many fell for his snake oil, still do.

We (as a family) can’t complain about immigration as we are going to encourage our teens to emigrate.

More if the same right-wing, isolationist nonsense is going to make things worse not better. But here we are.

Beachlover1993 · 23/08/2026 10:28

prampushingdownthehighst · 23/08/2026 09:39

Absolutely!
I wish more people understood what we owe and the interest we pay on the debt
Eye-watering and unsustainable

Then the government should look after its own people and interests first

Ihateboris · 23/08/2026 10:32

Lemonfrost · 23/08/2026 08:11

If there was an Oscar category for most dramatic post, you would ace it.

But they have a point regarding free dentist etc. Why should immigrants be entitled to this when we aren't?

Peedoffdoesntcutit · 23/08/2026 10:37

DoYouSellBuckets · 23/08/2026 09:27

I don't disagree that very rapid immigration into Boston changed the town very quickly in a county with very, very low immigration. It was always going to cause problems. The riots and heavy Brexit vote surprised no one. But I'm not sure I agree Boston was 'a lovely market town'. 20 years ago, it was run down, had enormous generational poverty, poor schooling (one of the only large market towns in an enormous county without a grammar school) and problems with drugs (again in a county with low levels of organised crimes). The fens have always been a relatively deprived, low-income area.

When I visited recently, it genuinely did seem like a lovely market town. Fantastic cafes. I'm not saying that immigration was managed well there (it really, really wasn't) but the town seems better kept to me than it ever has.

(Also, Woodhall Spa is lovely - I'd love to live closer!)

Also I just ask specifically which cafes and where? Appreciate those outside - conningsby for example has a lovely cafe- but where in Boston please? (I’m not being purposely edgy asking this but genuinely would like to know as our family - In laws all live there and we buy them gift vouchers all the time but never die in Boston)

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