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Is going braless in middle age really such a social faux pas?

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DustyHedgerows · 13/08/2026 11:14

Not sure what's changed, whether it's the heat or just a general feeling of being 'done', but this summer, I have parted company with my bra. I'm middle-aged, not particularly busty, and am just not bothering to put one on in the mornings when I'm not working. I suddenly resent the idea of wearing one, as it's not as if I really need support -it really only sheilds the world from seeing a hint of my nipples under my top. DC are embarrassed to be seen with me and although I don't really care, I've noticed the odd person do a double-take when I'm out. I'm not wearing anything revealing, just a t-shirt, a buttoned shirt or loose-fitting dress.
Is going braless in middle-age really the social faux pas that my teens imply that it is?

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pinkspeakers · 24/08/2026 14:52

Jesusstolemyhotrod · 23/08/2026 10:33

I have data.

Boobs without a bra are 6cm lower than with one. 6cm!

Intrigued. What are you measuring exactly? Nipple position? Or??

Jesusstolemyhotrod · 24/08/2026 16:14

pinkspeakers · 24/08/2026 14:52

Intrigued. What are you measuring exactly? Nipple position? Or??

Nipple to belly button. Interesting to see how far the mighty have fallen. Possibly not one to level at the kids:"My boobs fell 6 inches because of you buggers. "

bafta16 · 24/08/2026 16:21

Jesusstolemyhotrod · 24/08/2026 16:14

Nipple to belly button. Interesting to see how far the mighty have fallen. Possibly not one to level at the kids:"My boobs fell 6 inches because of you buggers. "

My nipples are on the same line of latitude as my belly button. I am short with a short body. If I didn't attempt to raise them up a bit I'd be a blob.

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