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What songs do you find especially sad or moving?

208 replies

TheLobsterClub · 16/07/2026 22:17

Interested to hear thoughts…

For me there are two that are very personal:

  • U2: with or without you - we played it at my dads funeral, I was 13 and he was 41, it has a lot of significance outside of being a sad song generally
  • Joy Division: Love Will Tear Us Apart - similar to the above, and made more sad with the fact the lead singer hung aged 23

special mention to Queen - No One But You. A friend sang it in an am dram production recently and I’d never noticed how heartbreaking it was

just interested as could do with a good cry!

OP posts:
ItsIn · 17/07/2026 06:48

Wires by Athlete 😭

pickywatermelon · 17/07/2026 06:50

Roads by Portishead

over the rainbow as PP mentioned

DaysofHoney · 17/07/2026 07:21

Queen;

The show must go on - played during dad’s funeral
Who wants to live forever - played at the end of dad’s funeral

Both songs pre selected by him

When we met the father giving the service a few days. beforehand, he asked if we wanted a song to play as we arrived and as dad’s coffin was brought in. We decided that no, we’d prefer the pianist just tinkling away.

I like to think my dad had other ideas. As my brother and I drove away from the meeting at the church, “These are the days of our lives” came on the radio as soon as we started the car. It was a surreal and beautiful moment and the song carries the biggest meaning of all now.

Fields of Gold, by Sting. I took my dad to see him at a beautiful open air venue just a year before he passed away. It was the most brilliant concert. When dad got sick he’d sit and listen to it and he’d cry quietly. It was very special for us.

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EspressoWarrior · 17/07/2026 08:27

Fast Car by Tracy Chapman. Just the sheer hopelessness of it.

Blackbird2409 · 17/07/2026 08:32

I had a tear yesterday at Streets of Philadelphia. It came on, in the bar in Kos on holiday and I was explaining the film and the song to my daughters 😓

MsIceSandwich · 17/07/2026 08:33

Come back to Camden - Morrissey
Love me Tender - Elvis
Honeybee - Olivia Rodrigo

CraftyAnt · 17/07/2026 08:34

Don't Give Up by Peter Gabriel / Kate Bush
I'd lost my job, I had a family to support and it had all got to much - I cried on my then wife's shoulder when this was on. When it finished she then said 'enough of that, now go get a job'. It was probably meant at motivating but I was on my proverbial knees. I never opened up to her again.

Nimrod by Elgar - Rousing is a such poor adjective for that song.

MadisonAvenue · 17/07/2026 08:43

Whatsername - Green Day
A Different Corner - George Michael
The Edge Of America - Duran Duran
Do You Believe In Shame? - Duran Duran
Waterloo Sunset - The Kinks
In My Life - The Beatles
Run - Snow Patrol
Both Sides Now - Joni Mitchell
The Clock Was Tickin’ - Brandon Flowers

1952VincentBlackLightning · 17/07/2026 08:48

She Goes On by Crowded House - such a gorgeous, life-affirming song, Neil Finn wrote it in memory of his mother, apparently.

Sandy Denny singing Who Knows Where the Time Goes?

Rufus Wainwright - Dinner at Eight

Squeeze - Labelled With Love, such a sad song

Good Year for the Roses, Elvis Costello

user293948849167 · 17/07/2026 08:58

Queen - the show must go on is a sad one, knowing how unwell Freddie Mercury was at the time and knowing he was dying singing those lyrics

Also
ABBA slipping through my fingers
Johnny Mathis When a child is born - because it reminds me of a family member who is no longer with us

MiracleIfItGrows · 17/07/2026 08:59

One more light- Linkin Park
It will be me- Melissa Etheridge ( from Brother Bear 2)

Gazelda · 17/07/2026 09:18

Drive, can’t remember who it’s by, which played during Live Aid and it felt as though the whole world stopped what it was doing to watch.

tears in heaven, Eric Clapton.

nimrod, Elgar

MrsMoastyToasty · 17/07/2026 09:30

Nothing Compares to You by Sinead O'Connor.
Amazing Grace by The Scots Dragoon Guards (instrumental piece). The day my FIL died it was played on Pick of The Pops on Radio 2. I was making my way over to PIL house to join DH and the rest of the family and had to pull into a lay by for a week. FIL was a very good bagpiper and composed pieces too.

GrillaMilla · 17/07/2026 10:20

Genesis -in too deep

Zoopet · 17/07/2026 10:59

Hey Brother- Avvicci
Bad day- Daniel Powter
As it was - Harry Styles
Better days- Goo goo dolls.
All make me cry.

Tcateh · 17/07/2026 11:00

CraftyAnt · 17/07/2026 08:34

Don't Give Up by Peter Gabriel / Kate Bush
I'd lost my job, I had a family to support and it had all got to much - I cried on my then wife's shoulder when this was on. When it finished she then said 'enough of that, now go get a job'. It was probably meant at motivating but I was on my proverbial knees. I never opened up to her again.

Nimrod by Elgar - Rousing is a such poor adjective for that song.

Both these tunes crossed my mind when I was deciding what to post further up.
Hugs x

Tcateh · 17/07/2026 11:01

Cheating but the whole Face Value album by Phil Collins.
I was 15 and not in a good place x

Dfg15 · 17/07/2026 11:11

Don't Cry Daddy by Elvis. I was 13 when it was released, I heard it once and have never been able to listen to it again. The first bars of the intro and I have to skip to the next track

Mygiddyvalentine · 17/07/2026 11:14

Two that come to mind

Nick Cave - Into my arms

Proclaimers - Sunshine on Leith

Findyourdomain · 17/07/2026 11:24

English Teacher - Nearly daffodils.

TorroFerney · 17/07/2026 12:13

Helpmechooseausername · 16/07/2026 22:18

Puff the magic dragon.

I'm not even joking. Makes me cry every single time. Poor, poor lonely Puff.

Edited

Oh yes as a child I couldn’t hear it without being really upset.

as an adult babies by pulp.

HelenaWilson · 17/07/2026 12:46

Puff - who doesn’t cry when Puff, that mighty dragon, sadly slips into his cave.

I start off at 'Dragons live forever, not so little boys' and then 'one grey night it happened - Jackie Paper came no more....'

Godlessdomestic · 17/07/2026 12:52

Pyjamatimenow · 16/07/2026 23:10

Surprised nobody has said ‘Tears in heaven’ apparently the poor child’s mother would never listen to it. I don’t think there’s a sadder song out there.

This. Breaks me every time.

BeardySchnauzer · 17/07/2026 13:17

In too deep - genesis and some other Phil Collins ones

and a few George Michael ones - waltz away dreaming always gets me

and Tracey chapman - baby can I hold you

bonnemaman1990 · 17/07/2026 16:20

During Covid, I turned 40 and cancelled all my lovely plans and was thrown into work wearing PPE.
I saw some horrible things professionally (one thing in particular which stopped me in my tracks) and like everyone else, struggled with kids, husbands failing business, kids missing milestone events.

The kids primary school put a montage video together of all the children to the soundtrack of ‘My lighthouse’ and I remember their stunned faces as I started sobbing. I think it’s a Christian song and I’m not religious but it broke me.