@martha79 I fully understand your excitement in getting a new bed! I scraped up enough to buy a new mattress after I split up with Horrible ExH. It was very cathartic seeing the old one get carted off in the van. Where you sleep is so very personal.
@TodayIsatrickyone so glad you are having a nice time, hope it continues and you feel the benefit for a long time after you get back.
I've been back down South on Monday, and back home today. Quite a whirlwind visit, and not nice driving down on Monday in the heat. My poor DM is unwell again with an infection in her leg, and I really wanted to go and see her. She has had a very rough few months, and I feel very guilty that I live a 5 hour drive away and cannot support her much. Not that I would be much use for a good proportion of the time, but that doesn't stop me fretting.
Anyway, I took her to the GP, and we did some shopping and errands, and just sat and chatted. I also caught up with Number 1 son. He is a love, he does his Grannies food shopping each week and generally keeps an eye on her. I am very proud of the man he has become.
Both DH and I are now exhausted, and are planning a couple of days doing the minimum. Or less.