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DS will only wear shorts

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wewearshortshorts · 06/01/2026 09:13

Does anybody else have one of these? He is determined to wear shorts throughout the whole year. He insists that he is not cold (he is).

Has anyone found any solutions?

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converseandjeans · 06/01/2026 23:57

All the boys in DS class wore shorts all year & played footie every chance they could. They were all fine.

ScaredOfFlying · 07/01/2026 00:07

I also have a 9 year-old who refuses to wear trousers and claims he will overheat and DIE if his legs are not bare. His genetics are 1/4 Norwegian, 1/2 Scottish and 1/4 West Country, I guess it’s not surprising he’s hardy.

I’m glad to hear that we are not alone but a question for those in the same boat- have any if you ever had the school tell you that you must make them dress warmly? I worry that we will be seen as bad parents.

ScaredOfFlying · 07/01/2026 00:11

TheWelshposter · 06/01/2026 22:43

My 9 year old is the same and has been for a few years. He will also only wear short pyjamas. No Christmas fluffy pjs for him....he looks like he's always on summer holidays. I feel your pain. He will hardly ever wear a coat either.

Mine not only rejects cosy pyjamas but also refuses to wear the top half of the shorty sets!

And as soon as he gets home he strips straight down to pants.

He has several pairs of trousers that have been outgrown without even being worn once…

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Puffinshop · 07/01/2026 07:57

wewearshortshorts · 06/01/2026 22:24

This is just brilliant.

Boys become shorts boys.
Shorts boys become shorts men.
But in Iceland, shorts boys don’t exist.

is that a haiku?

Haha yes that's the process. My brother (English in England) was a shorts boy who grew out of it so they don't all turn into shorts men, but I think in the UK most people know a few shorts men.

I've never seen one in Iceland and I think it is because you just can't be a shorts boy. Same way there are no babies who 'won't wear hats' in Iceland.

Seasaltchips · 07/01/2026 08:05

DH was wearing shorts yesterday in -5 degrees. He’s been like this since childhood.

Menopausalchunk · 07/01/2026 08:08

My DS is now in first year at high school, hasn’t worn long trousers since P5.
insists he’s not cold, has a permanent tan on his legs. Thought it was a phase that would pass but so far has shown no signs of stopping.
weirdly enough will wear pyjama bottoms in the house 🤦‍♀️. . So yes there are others out there 😂

Pleasedontputthatthere · 07/01/2026 08:10

Mine did 8-11, changed when he went to high school, he'll be fine.

Horrace · 07/01/2026 08:20

I see more and more grown men wearing shorts all year round these days. I dont get it. Women dont. We'd freeze. What is it with the male species

Needmorelego · 07/01/2026 08:40

Horrace · 07/01/2026 08:20

I see more and more grown men wearing shorts all year round these days. I dont get it. Women dont. We'd freeze. What is it with the male species

But women frequently wear skirts and dresses with just flimsy tights.

DivorcedButHappyNow · 07/01/2026 09:15

Yes mine. All the way to secondary school. His mates too.

ThisQuirkyAmberMember · 07/01/2026 14:22

My youngest DS only wears shorts (apart from school!) and he’s 13! He doesn’t appear to be cold, so I just leave him to it!!! He’s got other trousers & joggers that he can wear, but will always choose shorts over anything else!

MrsPositivity1 · 08/01/2026 07:57

My DS and his friends wore shorts every single day of primary school P1 - P7 (they had option of long trousers also). They had long school socks but he pushed them down.

3luckystars · 08/01/2026 08:02

My daughter wears shorts every day. She cannot stand anything touching of her legs and will not wear pants. Ever.
Even ice skating.
I think she is just runs warmer.
I bought her black shorts if she has to go to a funeral and I just let her do what makes her happy.

ScaredOfFlying · 08/01/2026 09:46

3luckystars · 08/01/2026 08:02

My daughter wears shorts every day. She cannot stand anything touching of her legs and will not wear pants. Ever.
Even ice skating.
I think she is just runs warmer.
I bought her black shorts if she has to go to a funeral and I just let her do what makes her happy.

Presumably you mean pants in the American sense not the British one?!

Regulus · 08/01/2026 14:56

Puffinshop · 06/01/2026 12:05

You need a slightly colder climate to stop boys turning into shorts boys, who then turn into shorts men.

I live in Iceland and the winters are cold enough that shorts boys just can't exist. They all learn to wear trousers and consequently no shorts men.

In London you can safely let him get on with it.

This has occupied more of my thoughts than is normal, I keep seeing shorts boys and thinking about them turning into shorts men, it has made me laugh.

WingsTingle · 08/01/2026 18:20

HelpMeGetThrough · 06/01/2026 09:23

Welcome to our world with the youngest.

Reception/Primary: shorts all the time.
Secondary: Pissed him off as had to wear trousers, out of school, shorts.
College:Shorts 24/7.

Hes now in first year of Uni doing a Teacher Training Degree for Secondary Sports, so is in shorts all the time 24/7.

I almost shit myself the other day as he had tracksuit bottoms on, as it was “a bit cold”. Yes mate, it’s minus bloody 2!!!

Same with my late teen son - he’s currently sat on the sofa in shorts whilst I’ve got three layers of clothes on, under a big blanket - and still cold!! My brother is just the same as 50 😁

cobrakaieaglefang · 08/01/2026 20:03

DS1 wore shorts 8-12 at his prep but they wore cord shorts, thick shirts, woollen jumpers and thick long grey socks.
There is a local comp I drive past on my way to work, there is a mid teen boy who has been wearing shorts since presumably yr7, I noticed there were another 2 lads with him wearing shorts this week.

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