@AcrossthePond55
Thank you for posting. I am so sorry about the position you find yourself in. Like others, I feared you were not posting because of your husband's poor health, though this is not exactly what I had been imagining. For many years, you have been on hand on countless threads on MN, giving your quiet, calm, and empathetic advice to many women in need of help. I hope that now, you yourself are being similarly supported by those around you. Please know that we are here to give you moral support, should you need it from people far away who think of you as a friend, even though we will never meet you in person. I hope your beloved sons are able to support you through this. Sending you love and only good thoughts to help you through this ordeal.