Hello all.
I've been absent for awhile and I wanted to give an explanation and say that my absence will be continuing for awhile.
My husband became suddenly and drastically ill in July. He was hospitalized over 9 times since then and is now in a care home. He's had an absolute personality transplant and the man I loved is now a complete stranger to me. He knows me, but has rewritten our life together and made me a villain. My heart is broken.
Being I'm in the US his care isn't covered by insurance nor does the US have a 'social safety net'. My life has been turned upside down both emotionally and financially to the point of having to consider either a legal separation or divorce in order to be able to preserve half of our joint assets for my own continuing living costs.
At this point I can't deal with Trump or the political situation so am bowing out until things are clearer and better in my life. I ask for prayers from the 'praying kind' and hope and good thoughts from all.
Hold your loved ones dear, life can change in an instant. Make good plans for your future, no matter how old you are.
God bless you all and thank you for the past, what, 10 years of good conversation. I'll be back if and when the 'Good Ship Across' rights itself.