I did actually frugal. I always read links!
It was you who asked whether anyone on this thread had been to any of the deprived Northern towns and claimed an insider expertise.
I really don't want to argue with you. I am not an arguer. I just don't like your implication that we are all soft southerners from apparently lovely places like Hemel. And there was absolutely nothing aggressive about my post which you called aggressive.
I'll stop wondering about Hemel. It has a crazy roundabout to keep intruders in a state of alarm as they enter. And leave it. And enter again.