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How often do you wake for a wee in the night?

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readingmakesmehappy · 07/11/2024 19:04

I wake up at least once a night, sometimes twice. Without fail. It's super annoying. I don't drink tea after lunch (that just made me wee more) and try not to drink too much water in the evening, but still. Obviously when I was pregnant it was even worse.

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Strawberrycheesecake7 · 07/11/2024 19:04

Pretty much never.

YorkieIsDefinitelyForGirls · 07/11/2024 19:05

I've always done this, even from quite young. So annoying! Sometimes it takes me 3 or 4 wees before I can finally settle for sleep. (Mid 40s!)

UrbanDieter · 07/11/2024 19:07

Late 40s, one wee sometimes 2. It's annoying and reducing liquid dosent seem to help

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Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 07/11/2024 19:07

If I've been at work then I'm usually dehydrated plus go to bed quite late, so that can be up not at all and sleep right through til 8 or up once. If I've been home all day and drunk tea I can be up three times in the night.

I have a downstairs bathroom which makes it a pain, but the dog needs letting out several times a night anyway, so it's not so terrible. But I do get annoyed some nights when I've only been in bed for a couple of hours, have just got into a nice sleep and - whoo, need a wee. But I'm at that age (64).

Jettyspaghetti · 07/11/2024 19:07

As a general rule none, but if I am woken up through the night for whatever reason (DP gets in from work, the cat jumps on me, or DD wakes me up) I always go for a wee.

DoIHaveToRepeatMyself · 07/11/2024 19:08

Two or 3 times. I'm 65

MaMisled · 07/11/2024 19:08

I never have. At 58 I'll wee before bed, about 11.30, get up around 8am and have a cup of tea, put a load if washing on and feed the animals before I wee!

Hardtobepositivesometimes · 07/11/2024 19:09

I'm the same OP. Always at least once, sometimes twice and occasionally more.

Having said that I do drink water through the night. And I do think sometimes when I wake up - I'm a light sleeper- I psychologically need the loo rather than physically.

Moier · 07/11/2024 19:10

You're lucky.. on average 12 times..
My bladder never grew from being six years old
. It's now prolapsed ( waiting for operation) I have stress incontinence too.
Tried botox and medication nothing works.

Foundanotherwrinkle · 07/11/2024 19:10

Some nights once, other nights I'm up every two hours

rookiemere · 07/11/2024 19:11

In my 50s, generally once or twice a night. Minimum 6 times if camping with no easy access to a toilet.

Hardtobepositivesometimes · 07/11/2024 19:11

Moier · 07/11/2024 19:10

You're lucky.. on average 12 times..
My bladder never grew from being six years old
. It's now prolapsed ( waiting for operation) I have stress incontinence too.
Tried botox and medication nothing works.

Oh gosh that must be an absolute nightmare for you!

LittleRedRidingHoody · 07/11/2024 19:11

Never, unless I'm ill (cold/flu) and then I need to constantly.

mrsm43s · 07/11/2024 19:13

Never until my late 40s
Now, 50+, once a night.

Twilight7777 · 07/11/2024 19:13

At least once a night.

CorporaINobbyNobbs · 07/11/2024 19:13

Funny I was going to start this thread. Once usually around 4am. I’m 44. I’d say up until I was late 30s no times

Tickletuesday · 07/11/2024 19:14

Rarely, only if I have had too much wine. A doctor told my husband if you don’t go to the loo in the night you are most likely to be very dehydrated.

Thevelvelletes · 07/11/2024 19:15

7 or 8 diabetic got to mention that at next review.

thenightsky · 07/11/2024 19:15

Always between 1.30 and 2.30am. Then again between 5 and 7am.

TwoBlueFish · 07/11/2024 19:16

Usually none, I’m early 50’s

I pee loads during the day

buffyspikefaith · 07/11/2024 19:16

Rarely. Maybe once a month? It's usually that something else wakes me then I go while I'm awake

twentysevendresses · 07/11/2024 19:17

At least twice...sometimes three or four times. This is since menopause hit and I've had night sweats...🤦‍♀️ I wake up constantly and if I'm awake, I need a wee...I try and ignore it but that makes it worse 😨

But even before menopause it was at least once! I even have 'wee dreams' which are awful, where I'm dreaming that I'm desperate for a wee, but either can't find a loo, or the ones I do find are very public (open) or filthy dirty/broken, so I have to keep searching, and I'm getting more and more frantic! I always wake up just at the point where I'm about to have an 'unfortunate incident'! 😨

In real life, if I was THIS desperate, I'd just do a 'wild wee' 🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️😂

mathanxiety · 07/11/2024 19:18

Never, and I drink lots of water. No caffeine after about 4pm though.

Are people not exhausted from getting up night after night?

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 07/11/2024 19:19

Almost never. I'm 53. I didn't when I was pregnant either. Unfortunately ddog has started quite oftwn waking wanting a wee in the night though, so my sleep is disturbed by someone else's bladder!

GiraffeTree · 07/11/2024 19:19

Usually once, sometimes zero. I'm 50.

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