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littlestrawberryhat · 08/11/2024 20:45

PickleSarnie · 08/11/2024 19:11

Equating this to mocking women for being overweight is ridiculous. Given how much importance is given to being tall in society (especially/mainly for men) - it's proven that tall men are more likely to be sucessful, happier and paid more than their shorter peers - I struggle to see how he will be upset about being called tall.

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It’s not positive though, is it? Nobody is saying he looks gorgeous or hot. They think he looks “massive”. Nobody wants to be “massive” or “giant”. It’s just not a kind thing to say about anybody. Overweight is a choice the vast majority of the time.

OhcantthInkofaname · 09/11/2024 00:37

Pixilicious1 · 07/11/2024 15:50

He’s not even that tall, he’s 6ft 2, it’s just that his dad is only 5ft 8

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There is clearly more than a 6-in difference.

Redcrayons · 09/11/2024 08:40

littlestrawberryhat · 08/11/2024 20:45

It’s not positive though, is it? Nobody is saying he looks gorgeous or hot. They think he looks “massive”. Nobody wants to be “massive” or “giant”. It’s just not a kind thing to say about anybody. Overweight is a choice the vast majority of the time.

My son is 6’4 and I’m 5’10. I have a very similar photo to this one, I look short and dumpy. I got lots of similar jokes, because I look so tiny in comparison and everyone who has ever met me knows I’m not.

I haven’t seen anyone mention his weight. The joke is the height difference, not this young lad.

SabreIsMyFave · 09/11/2024 11:21

OhcantthInkofaname · 09/11/2024 00:37

There is clearly more than a 6-in difference.

I said this too. I reckon Gary is a couple of inches shorter than he claims, and his son is a couple of inches taller. So Gary is 5 ft 6 - and his son is 6 ft 4.

Verylazy · 09/11/2024 11:54

I think he has grown since the last pictures of him came out and he is probably quite a bit taller than 6’2’’. Also Gary might have shrunk a bit with age or was never as tall as he claimed.

XxSideshowAuntSallyx · 09/11/2024 12:03

littlestrawberryhat · 08/11/2024 20:45

It’s not positive though, is it? Nobody is saying he looks gorgeous or hot. They think he looks “massive”. Nobody wants to be “massive” or “giant”. It’s just not a kind thing to say about anybody. Overweight is a choice the vast majority of the time.

They always put me between my brothers so I look short. Everyone thinks it's hilarious, especially when I'm wearing bare feet or flats. It's like two giants and hobbit, and makes them look really tall and me really short.

It's a family joke (because I'm not short, they're just tall), just like my brother always leans on my shoulder and pats me on the head. People who are tall don't get offended when they are told they are giants.

It seems some on here really are mood hoovers and get offended on others behalf.

Packetofcrispsplease · 09/11/2024 18:45

6’2” is tall but hardly so tall that anyone would remark on it ?
It is an odd camera angle I think + Gary Barlow is only about 5’7 “ .
So neither of them are an unusual height 🙄
I am quite small but still a reasonable height for a woman , and get fed up with comments about being short 🙄

littlestrawberryhat · 09/11/2024 18:47

XxSideshowAuntSallyx · 09/11/2024 12:03

They always put me between my brothers so I look short. Everyone thinks it's hilarious, especially when I'm wearing bare feet or flats. It's like two giants and hobbit, and makes them look really tall and me really short.

It's a family joke (because I'm not short, they're just tall), just like my brother always leans on my shoulder and pats me on the head. People who are tall don't get offended when they are told they are giants.

It seems some on here really are mood hoovers and get offended on others behalf.

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Speaking as a tall woman I can say I am offended when someone describes me as a giant. And that goes for all the tall males in my family too. If a tall person isn’t offended by being called a giant then they’re absolutely bored to death by the height comments. I find it hard to take from a smaller to average height person like you that tall people aren’t offended by being called a giant. You arent in a position to tell me how I feel.

PanAmHostess · 09/11/2024 19:09

Packetofcrispsplease · 09/11/2024 18:45

6’2” is tall but hardly so tall that anyone would remark on it ?
It is an odd camera angle I think + Gary Barlow is only about 5’7 “ .
So neither of them are an unusual height 🙄
I am quite small but still a reasonable height for a woman , and get fed up with comments about being short 🙄

Same apparently 5 foot 3 makes me a midget

adriftinadenofvipers · 10/11/2024 01:16

littlestrawberryhat · 09/11/2024 18:47

Speaking as a tall woman I can say I am offended when someone describes me as a giant. And that goes for all the tall males in my family too. If a tall person isn’t offended by being called a giant then they’re absolutely bored to death by the height comments. I find it hard to take from a smaller to average height person like you that tall people aren’t offended by being called a giant. You arent in a position to tell me how I feel.

I would happily be referred to as a "giant" rather than a short arse or a midget! I used to be 5'3.5" but I've shrunk as I've got older and am probably now 5'2"! I hate being short!!

XxSideshowAuntSallyx · 10/11/2024 07:14

littlestrawberryhat · 09/11/2024 18:47

Speaking as a tall woman I can say I am offended when someone describes me as a giant. And that goes for all the tall males in my family too. If a tall person isn’t offended by being called a giant then they’re absolutely bored to death by the height comments. I find it hard to take from a smaller to average height person like you that tall people aren’t offended by being called a giant. You arent in a position to tell me how I feel.

You don't speak for every tall person so can't tell me how people I know feel. If they were offended by it they wouldn't do it.

littlestrawberryhat · 10/11/2024 07:41

XxSideshowAuntSallyx · 10/11/2024 07:14

You don't speak for every tall person so can't tell me how people I know feel. If they were offended by it they wouldn't do it.

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Ok. Every time you call a tall person a giant and they smile politely just know that inside they are rolling their eyes at you. Or just don’t comment on people’s appearance for a laugh at all. just go through the thread and read other tall peoples opinions. Might make you think before you do another hilarious tall joke to a tall person.

lasagnelle · 10/11/2024 07:43

littlestrawberryhat · 10/11/2024 07:41

Ok. Every time you call a tall person a giant and they smile politely just know that inside they are rolling their eyes at you. Or just don’t comment on people’s appearance for a laugh at all. just go through the thread and read other tall peoples opinions. Might make you think before you do another hilarious tall joke to a tall person.

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littlestrawberryhat · 10/11/2024 07:49

lasagnelle · 10/11/2024 07:43

100%

I think I need to let this go now, it’s too exhausting!! 😂

CoolShoeshine · 11/11/2024 20:04

If Gary is acrually 5 ft 6 then that would make Mark Owen about 4ft 10 😂

CultureAlienationBoredomandDespair · 11/11/2024 20:31

CoolShoeshine · 11/11/2024 20:04

If Gary is acrually 5 ft 6 then that would make Mark Owen about 4ft 10 😂

I’ve seen them both a few times and would have put Gary at 5ft 8 and Mark at 5ft 6.

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