5 ft 9 to 5 ft 10 IS NOT SHORT FOR A MAN!
And you don't get to speak for 'most women!'
Honestly, your attitude stinks. You are clearly obsessed with tallness, and it's WEIRD.
You are obsessed with tallness. At least own it.
Rightly or wrongly, a shorter man is not the ideal in many women’s eyes.
And also, not all women think like you! You don't speak for me.
Your husband needs to speak to a therapist if he thinks he is short at 5 ft 9 to 5 ft 10. Your attitude is very likely not helping him!
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