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CF sold my shoes part 2!

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IDontCareMatthewImSpeakingToRachel · 02/10/2023 17:46

Link to previous thread:

http://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/amiibeingunreasonable/4908395-is-this-cf-and-have-i-been-out-of-order

So sorry for the delay. I know I promised I'd do another thread after dinner last night.
Then sort of had second thoughts as some posters started commenting on my previous thread that I was enjoying the drama, then tattle started getting involved etc etc.

I have been blocked on social media, as well as family and friends. We've all been turfed out but who cares. I have my lovely shoes back.

Letter was sent signed for today.
Hopefully she receives it tomorrow!

Thanks again for everyone who helped.

A happy ending (and £300 odd short) but that's what I'm aiming to get back now.

CF sold my shoes part 2!
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RadFs · 19/07/2024 08:46

IDontCareMatthewImSpeakingToRachel · 04/10/2023 09:16

The letter is me coving my own back, offering her a chance of resolution before intake further action.

I think it looks quite professional tbh..

The reason I added about the other people is because she has scammed a group of us. I wanted her to know that we all now know what she's like, as there was a chance she'd probably ask one of our friends to 'borrow' the money from them.

I had half the people telling me to put the crime ref and half saying don't. I wanted her to know I've reported it to the police as if I didn't she would probably call bullshit that I even reported her in the first place and probably ignore my letter.

Hi @IDontCareMatthewImSpeakingToRachel
a lot of us want to know what’s happened since. Please let us know.

LookItsMeAgain · 20/07/2024 15:57

@Admin PLEASE please please please can you start locking threads to new posts being made when the last update on the thread was over 6 months ago.

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 20/07/2024 16:47

LookItsMeAgain · 20/07/2024 15:57

@Admin PLEASE please please please can you start locking threads to new posts being made when the last update on the thread was over 6 months ago.

That would certainly mean the OP could never come back with an update, wouldn't it.

LookItsMeAgain · 20/07/2024 18:28

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 20/07/2024 16:47

That would certainly mean the OP could never come back with an update, wouldn't it.

She did - it's the opening post of this whole thread.

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 20/07/2024 18:40

If this thread were closed to new messages, she would never know anyone wanted an update – and ok, maybe she could start a new thread but if she didn't know one was wanted, why would she?

IDontCareMatthewImSpeakingToRachel · 20/07/2024 21:50

Hello everyone!

Sorry it's been a long time.. I was locked out of my MN account for one reason or another and I didn't get the notifications for this thread on the other account. But alas, I'm back on here now and will give everyone a long awaited update.

She received my letter and I got a text message from her probably 10-14 days later asking to pay me £5 per month. (I wish that was a joke.) she said she didn't deserve to pay me back due to the article and the thread, so she did see it.

It later came out that she owed nearly everyone in our group that I introduced her to, quite a bit of money, as well as some items that she was loaned. Not everybody has got their things back.
CF and I agreed to £50 a month. She wasn't reliable on it and missed it every now and again but I received my last payment in May. I'm still blocked on social media as are all the friends and family. She will communicate over text if she really needs to.

She really was a complete scam artist. The things that came out about her are criminal. (Think fraud, taking peoples cards and money)

Our friendship group is still together, very weary about lending anyone money now.

So there it is, I got the shoes back and I eventually got my money back. WRT the pawn broker, I did end up reporting them to trading standards, as they said it was up to them to deal with the transaction with CF herself, even though they were my shoes. Nothing ever came of it, but it's bad business to accept personal valuables with now proof that the person selling them actually bought them.

This thread bought back so many memories, especially the tinned rice pudding situation.

Not the most excitable or notable ending, but the main thing is I got what I was owed. Friends are battling to get theirs back. One is going through small claims, one is probably going to write it off.

Lesson learnt, will never loan my stuff again!

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RadFs · 20/07/2024 21:55

LookItsMeAgain · 20/07/2024 15:57

@Admin PLEASE please please please can you start locking threads to new posts being made when the last update on the thread was over 6 months ago.

You can stop watching this thread if you don’t want updates. The posters may want to come update their posts at a later time. There’s just been and update on another post that a lot of people were glued to.

RadFs · 20/07/2024 21:59

IDontCareMatthewImSpeakingToRachel · 20/07/2024 21:50

Hello everyone!

Sorry it's been a long time.. I was locked out of my MN account for one reason or another and I didn't get the notifications for this thread on the other account. But alas, I'm back on here now and will give everyone a long awaited update.

She received my letter and I got a text message from her probably 10-14 days later asking to pay me £5 per month. (I wish that was a joke.) she said she didn't deserve to pay me back due to the article and the thread, so she did see it.

It later came out that she owed nearly everyone in our group that I introduced her to, quite a bit of money, as well as some items that she was loaned. Not everybody has got their things back.
CF and I agreed to £50 a month. She wasn't reliable on it and missed it every now and again but I received my last payment in May. I'm still blocked on social media as are all the friends and family. She will communicate over text if she really needs to.

She really was a complete scam artist. The things that came out about her are criminal. (Think fraud, taking peoples cards and money)

Our friendship group is still together, very weary about lending anyone money now.

So there it is, I got the shoes back and I eventually got my money back. WRT the pawn broker, I did end up reporting them to trading standards, as they said it was up to them to deal with the transaction with CF herself, even though they were my shoes. Nothing ever came of it, but it's bad business to accept personal valuables with now proof that the person selling them actually bought them.

This thread bought back so many memories, especially the tinned rice pudding situation.

Not the most excitable or notable ending, but the main thing is I got what I was owed. Friends are battling to get theirs back. One is going through small claims, one is probably going to write it off.

Lesson learnt, will never loan my stuff again!

Hi @IDontCareMatthewImSpeakingToRachel glad you got your money back and got rid of the so called friend. Hope your other friends get their money back. Lesson learnt and the toxic person out of your circle.

Billybagpuss · 21/07/2024 05:41

It sounds like between you all you’ve got the good basis for a book.

browneyes77 · 21/07/2024 08:35

LookItsMeAgain · 20/07/2024 15:57

@Admin PLEASE please please please can you start locking threads to new posts being made when the last update on the thread was over 6 months ago.

Why? Some of us want to hear any updates?

If you don’t then un watch the thread and leave the rest of us to it.

@Admin Please don’t lock threads because some people are incapable of using the un watch button.

Mari60 · 21/07/2024 13:34

OP - Many thanks for the update. Very much appreciated. I'm sorry that you had so much hassle, but well done to you for gritting your teeth and getting everything back.

OlderGlaswegianLivingInDevon · 21/07/2024 13:41

I have to admit, the tinned custard was one of the best / funnest comments I have read on MN, and the photo of rice pudding was even better !!!

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 21/07/2024 13:41

IDontCareMatthewImSpeakingToRachel, hurrah for a bit of cosmic justice! I am glad you managed to thwart the CF.

GoogleWhacked · 21/07/2024 14:43

Thank you so much for that detailed update @IDontCareMatthewImSpeakingToRachel 🙏
What an awful person!! I'm glad you got your money back, but you should not have had to go through all that. And if your CF does ever read this again, I really hope she realises how absolutely despicable her behaviour is.

sittingonacornflake · 21/07/2024 18:11

So glad you got your money back!

Nanaof1 · 22/07/2024 01:27

Yea! I had thought about you on and off @IDontCareMatthewImSpeakingToRachel and had wondered if you ever got your money and if the thief ever paid the piper. Sounds like she is still skirting being made to pay for her actions.
I'm sorry that there are more of her victims out there. I wish your friends luck in being able to also get justice.

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