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Can people please keep me distracted.

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theferry · 01/03/2023 19:27

My mum is dying. I’m on the train trying to get to her with my DDs. She’s waiting for me. Can people please help me stay distracted. I’m trying to not be a blubbering mess in front of everyone.

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GreenLeavesRustling · 01/03/2023 19:27

Handhold x

GreenLeavesRustling · 01/03/2023 19:27

how old are your DDs?

CrapBucket · 01/03/2023 19:29

Oh honey. I'm so sorry. Its ok to blubber in these circumstances. What a train stranger thinks of you is not relevant.

However. You asked for distraction. Would you like to guess the population of Java?

Give me a guess and I'll tell you higher or lower.

theferry · 01/03/2023 19:30

GreenLeavesRustling · 01/03/2023 19:27

how old are your DDs?

15 and 13.

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Itgoesalittlesomethinglikethis · 01/03/2023 19:31

Don't worry if you need a cry. We can distract you here x

theferry · 01/03/2023 19:31

CrapBucket · 01/03/2023 19:29

Oh honey. I'm so sorry. Its ok to blubber in these circumstances. What a train stranger thinks of you is not relevant.

However. You asked for distraction. Would you like to guess the population of Java?

Give me a guess and I'll tell you higher or lower.

Im not entirely sure I know where Java is geography was never my strong point 🤔
5 million

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CrapBucket · 01/03/2023 19:34

theferry · 01/03/2023 19:31

Im not entirely sure I know where Java is geography was never my strong point 🤔
5 million

I should have picked somewhere else really as now I have googled for the answer and its very complicated!

I have the 2015 figure anyway... go much much higher

Englishash · 01/03/2023 19:34

Bless you. Stay calm. You're on your way as quickly as possible -£ to a penny your mum will wait for you ; somehow she will know you're on your way. Don't worry about hiding your tears. Have a cry if you need to but dry your eyes when you get there to hold her hand. We're holding yours. 💐

theferry · 01/03/2023 19:34

10 million

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Englishash · 01/03/2023 19:35

Java? Isn't that east of Krakatoa?

Gardenclems · 01/03/2023 19:36

I think Java is one of the most densely populated parts of the world

Coffeeandnaps · 01/03/2023 19:36

Another handhold. How about doing an online grocery shop? Sound odd but helped me in similar circumstances

theferry · 01/03/2023 19:37

Thank you people. She know im coming. Sister, dad etx are all with her. Thank goodness to train is on time 🤞. Loads have been delayed/cancelled.

she was diagnosed with cancer only 4 weeks ago. She’s just faded away so quickly.

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crossstitchingnana · 01/03/2023 19:38

What's in your fridge?

Englishash · 01/03/2023 19:40

crossstitchingnana · 01/03/2023 19:38

What's in your fridge?

No bloody tomatoes 🍅

CherrySocks · 01/03/2023 19:40

Have you done today's WORDLE, QUORDLE, XORDLE, SQUAREDLE - I find them all useful distractions

theferry · 01/03/2023 19:40

Gardenclems · 01/03/2023 19:36

I think Java is one of the most densely populated parts of the world

That shows how crap my geography is. Is it around the Indonesia area?

2 hours of the train journey left. We’re in Scotland and they’re in Yorkshire. My mum always said she wished she had wings to fly to us.

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bananaAgogo · 01/03/2023 19:40

Do Wordle or Picturdle
Picturdle
Wordle

theferry · 01/03/2023 19:41

crossstitchingnana · 01/03/2023 19:38

What's in your fridge?

Milk, pizza, yoghurt, butter, jam, hotdogs, salad.

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Itgoesalittlesomethinglikethis · 01/03/2023 19:42

My mum always said she wished she had wings to fly to us. That's beautiful.

I'm in Yorkshire and even my geography of Yorkshire/UK is bad and I know nothing about Java.

CrapBucket · 01/03/2023 19:43

Yes Java is part of Indonesia.

In 2105 its population was 145 MILLION

Java is one of the world's most densely populated areas. The island averages more than 2,600 persons per square mile (1,000 per square km) and has the majority of Indonesia's population on only 7 percent of the total land area of the republic.

Englishash · 01/03/2023 19:43

You've got the wings. You're flying to be with her. Hang on in there ...

theferry · 01/03/2023 19:43

I’m glad I was able to get first class tickets for a reasonable amount (not that I care about money right now). I figured it would be quieter r, which it is.

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theferry · 01/03/2023 19:44

CrapBucket · 01/03/2023 19:43

Yes Java is part of Indonesia.

In 2105 its population was 145 MILLION

Java is one of the world's most densely populated areas. The island averages more than 2,600 persons per square mile (1,000 per square km) and has the majority of Indonesia's population on only 7 percent of the total land area of the republic.

I was miles off then 🙈

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Englishash · 01/03/2023 19:45

Java sounds like an awful place tbf

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